PUA Forum :: I never did an approach in my life

Let me give you a series of super amazing UNBREAKABLE openers that are 100% REJECTION PROOF. This material is sold by mPUAs and Gurus around the world for THOUSANDS of dollars, but I'll give it all to you, today, for FREE.

"Do you know where room 315 is?"
"Do you have the time?"
"Where's the nearest cafe where I can get a good coffee?"
"I'm looking for a place to get a quick bite cuz the cafeteria food sucks!"

Get the idea?

The worst rejection you'll get is "I don't know" or simply the directions to the place and then she walks off.

All you have to do is practice doing that a while until you're comfortable, and then you can work on transitioning, where you just move from the opener topic to a normal conversation. If you're on campus, what's easier than asking her about classes she's taking, where she's living, if she's in a sorority or some other social group, team or activity, and so forth. You already have a lot in common and the POINT of college is to meet people, so she will be more than willing to stay and chat.

Author:	zacharie101 [ Wed Sep 01, 2010 5:40 pm ]
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I never approached a random stranger before, only time I talk to girls back in high school was when we known each other in class, or worked in groups but I never had a gf before now im a college student and feel so dam pressured to get girls, why? because my university in south florida has HBs all over the place from left to right (they love wearing shorts) Whats holding me back is being a commuter and not having a dorm, I dnt have as much opportunities to make friends although I cant afford a dorm cause it cost $3,500, Im trying to earn scholarships and stuff so next year I will try to get one. What im trying to ask is How would you approach girls in college? I realized my afc ways and stopped it, so I need some help

Author:	beegy [ Wed Sep 01, 2010 6:21 pm ]
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good luck with the scholarship dude, ill tell u a peice of advice that hopefully will change ur life, before dealing with people deal with urself, read inner-game books and practice them, if u did it full time ull be done in a week and then this will greatly help u in pick ups and much more.

Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Sep 01, 2010 7:10 pm ]
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Let me give you a series of super amazing UNBREAKABLE openers that are 100% REJECTION PROOF. This material is sold by mPUAs and Gurus around the world for THOUSANDS of dollars, but I'll give it all to you, today, for FREE. "Do you know where room 315 is?" "Do you have the time?" "Where's the nearest cafe where I can get a good coffee?" "I'm looking for a place to get a quick bite cuz the cafeteria food sucks!" Get the idea? The worst rejection you'll get is "I don't know" or simply the directions to the place and then she walks off. All you have to do is practice doing that a while until you're comfortable, and then you can work on transitioning, where you just move from the opener topic to a normal conversation. If you're on campus, what's easier than asking her about classes she's taking, where she's living, if she's in a sorority or some other social group, team or activity, and so forth. You already have a lot in common and the POINT of college is to meet people, so she will be more than willing to stay and chat.

Author:	zacharie101 [ Wed Sep 01, 2010 8:41 pm ]
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Quote: Let me give you a series of super amazing UNBREAKABLE openers that are 100% REJECTION PROOF. This material is sold by mPUAs and Gurus around the world for THOUSANDS of dollars, but I'll give it all to you, today, for FREE. "Do you know where room 315 is?" "Do you have the time?" "Where's the nearest cafe where I can get a good coffee?" "I'm looking for a place to get a quick bite cuz the cafeteria food sucks!" Get the idea? The worst rejection you'll get is "I don't know" or simply the directions to the place and then she walks off. All you have to do is practice doing that a while until you're comfortable, and then you can work on transitioning, where you just move from the opener topic to a normal conversation. If you're on campus, what's easier than asking her about classes she's taking, where she's living, if she's in a sorority or some other social group, team or activity, and so forth. You already have a lot in common and the POINT of college is to meet people, so she will be more than willing to stay and chat. Openers arent the problem for me, the biggest problem is what to do after the opener? and fear of rejection?

Author:	zacharie101 [ Wed Sep 01, 2010 8:47 pm ]
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Quote: good luck with the scholarship dude, ill tell u a peice of advice that hopefully will change ur life, before dealing with people deal with urself, read inner-game books and practice them, if u did it full time ull be done in a week and then this will greatly help u in pick ups and much more. I think i have taken care of the inner game, the dealing with people is what I need help specially cause college game is different and there isnt alot of pua who focus on college

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Author:	Mungo [ Wed Sep 01, 2010 9:28 pm ]
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In the last thread I saw someóne write "blondguy has a point", and I will repeat it: Blondguy has a point. If you just ask the time, what's the worst rejection you can get? The time, right? That's the worst plausible result, that she gives you the time and walks off. Now, when you transition to normal conversation, just keep it normal and keep your mind off fucking her. Don't even try to. If you're not results oriented, if you're not trying to get her to bed, but rather just try to have a nice conversation with her, what's the worst thing that can plausibly happen? This: HB: I'm really late for class / really gotta go / whatever. You: Ok, no problem. Take care, maybe I'll see you around! (walk away) get rid of results orientation and fear of rejection will go with it.

Author:	zacharie101 [ Wed Sep 01, 2010 11:28 pm ]
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I have another post about a certain situation that happened to me, I was wondering if you guys reading this would be willing to help and respond to the post here is the link: im-killing-myself-over-this-vt74206.html?highlight=

Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Sep 02, 2010 1:46 pm ]
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Zach you can rationalise why you shouldn't do any approaches as much as you like, or you can just decide that it's a fun game you're gonna play and start trying to improve at it. You say you're opening is fine, but you're not opening because you don't know how to transition. Well, just start opening first until you're totally comfortable with it, and then work on transitioning. You're basically saying "well I have this video game but I don't want to put it in the machine because I can do level one, but I can never reach the end of level 2 so why even bother?" Well you play the levels over again until you beat them, and then you move on to the next levels and pretty soon you can stick it on a harder setting and play through 1-5 no problem. Also, you HAVE FUN doing it and it feels good having a challenge and then pushing through it! As a final transitioning tip, why not try doing a quick cold read, or just notice something about her, and then after that discussion if no new threads open, then just starting a DHV story just for the hell of it and seeing where that goes. For example PUA: Hey do you know where a cafe is? Her: Yeah there's one just over there on the left PUA: Oh cool, thanks. Oh hey that necklace is really chic - where'd you get it? Her: Thanks Ya I got it at H&M on sale actually blah... PUA: Something about H&M / shopping with a friend recently / ANYFUCKINTHING Will this kill you? No. Now go out there and start doing approaches. The only failure is to NOT try.

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