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| Author: | effortrequired [ Tue Aug 31, 2010 2:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | long term game |
Posted this earlier but in the wrong section. Ok, so I've had a successful couple of weeks f-closed 3 girls, the first two of which were one night club efforts and the other a 'longer term project' that I began a couple of weeks before hooking up with the other two, but still only slept with once. Thing is I now think I'm falling for the 'longer term project' girl, we became quite close over a relatively short period of time, but now she's away for a couple of weeks and I'm not quite sure the best way to go about trying to develop this in to something more. I've never really used any form of game for anything other than just getting laid in the short-term, and just need a bit of advice on how to try and play out this scenario. |
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| Author: | PlayHer Man [ Tue Aug 31, 2010 3:34 am ] |
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Meh.. there really isn't such a thing as "long-term game" IMO. Game is what you use to meet and fuck women. Once you have succeeded at that... the rest is just regular people skills and being yourself. Deep and meaningful relationships are dramatically different from your basic PUA, fuck-and-chuck lifestyle. Unlike PUA where you can get girls out of your league by developing skills... serious relationships require that you are both on the same level. You can only keep up appearances for so long, so trying to use any type of "game" to keep a girl long-term will likely fail. The only advice I can give is to maintain your identity and individuality so the girl maintains respect. In the end if a woman wants a certain type of guy and you are NOT that guy.. she will figure it out eventually and leave you. Hope that helps. |
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| Author: | dropkick123 [ Tue Aug 31, 2010 10:21 pm ] |
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Totally agree with PlayHerMan. Gaming is all good and well in the short-term but sooner or later the girl will catch on. If its leading on to a long-term relationship you need to start showing her theres more to you then just opening and closing. Girls want an emotional connection in LTR's just as much as being a well good lay. Carry on always exciting her, never let her fully know you and suprise her with a talent of fact about yourself that she never knew, but don't game her to the point that she can't see where the relationship is going and that you'l never change. |
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| Author: | effortrequired [ Tue Aug 31, 2010 11:13 pm ] |
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Yeah, reading back over that I dont think I worded it very well. It's still early days between us and I guess I was just looking for ideas on how best to keep her interest spiked until we've established a bit more of a connection, but done a bit more reading about and got some good ideas. [quote]but don't game her to the point that she can't see where the relationship is going and that you'l never change.[/quote] Well put. |
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