I know allot of you think text game is superfluous, but when you're my age, in high school, its something you have to accept that you're gunna need to deal with. I had a really bad case of oneitis a while back with a hb8. Initially she was attracted to me but I ended up driving her away with a ton of classic clingy AFC mistakes. Before I write any more, I'd just like to say that I've been over her and involved in other girls for a while and the oneitis has been out of my system. A few nights ago, I was surprised to receive a text from her at 2 in the morning (yeah i know, im nocturnal):
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2:00am-HB: hey
2:05am-HB: DONT BE SLEEPING!!!
2:30am-Me: I'M NOT SLEEPING!!!! whats good short stack?
2:32am-HB: GOOD! Short stack?
2:34am-Me: you're shorter than me...
2:36am-HB: haha i like it! nm... u, tall stack? that doesnt work as well...
2:38am-Me: Im too freeeee to be labeled...
2:41am-HB: well im sorry to offend you with my condescending labels... it shall not happen again.
2:47am-HB: So howz your summer been? i havent seen u in forever!
2:52am-Me: Wups almost fell asleep. its been pretty great but its way too short. the dance was fricken awesome though! *Some friends of mine dj their own private dances. They are notorious for being extremely raunchy. A friend of mine kiss closed 30 girls in one venue... but I digress*
2:54am-HB: really? i heard it was the worst one yet. like wicked small and bright... well glad u had a good time! whod you go with?
2:57am-HB: STOP FALLING ASLEEP ON ME! god! im the only one awake cuz im friggan nocturnal!
2:58am-Me: I went with *other hb*, *pivots and afc friends*. *other hb* just sat there like a blob and *blah blah blah blah things that happened to pivot*
3:00am-HB: haha *not suprised at pivot drama*... lol glad u had fun. wait r u and *other HB* together?
3:01am-Me:bahaha nope. i thought she was cute but she turned out to be kinda boring i guess. i just dance with underclassmen while she sat down for most of it
3:03am-HB: haha robbin the craddle... nice! oh ya? good. i didnt like her... shes not ur type...
3:06am-Me:Yee i agree. Not my type at all
... so hows your summer been?3:08am-HB: *blah blah blah blah*... so why havent i seen u all summer? too cool to hangout with me?
-Me: Shit I can't believe school starts next week... *sent at same time*
3:10am-HB :ya i know right? we only have *#days left of vacation*!
3:10am-Me:yeah i kinda didnt wanna have my reputation tarnished with the likes of you
but maybe we cam hang out before summers over3:11am-Me: I'm pretty tired... i think im goin to bed. Have fun being nocturnal!
3:13am-HB: ya maybe... if u wont b humiliated being seen with me...
3:13am-HB: arrgghhhh... fine
goodnightAt this point I knew I had made a few mistakes by not building more sexual tension, but I felt fairly confident that I had her in the bag. Three days later:
11:25am-Me: Hey you!
11:30am-HB: Yello!
11:43am-Me: I think I saw *HB's brother* at the carnival tonight... Were you there?
11:45am-HB: no i wasnt there but ya that was probably himn! he was there!
11:51am-Me: ohh... it was wicked fun! you missed out! haha im so sad that vacations over in two days. you should hang out with me either *next two days*
I never got a response after that. I realize that things would be easier if just got another form of communication, but I haven't seen this HB for months. I can barely consider myself as an Rafc so I'd really be thankful for any insight you have to offer.
I really thought I had this one so needless to say, I'm kinda disappointed. I would be extraordinarily grateful if I could get any opinions on this so that I may not make the same mistakes in the future. Thanks.