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Author:  Apocalyptica [ Fri Aug 27, 2010 9:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Will a girl notice when you are a virgin?

Question is in the topic title already

will a girl notice you are a virgin, or can you just say "its been a while" or "i'm pretty drunk"?

i wanna start gaming a bit, i'm not really shy or bad with girls, just hadnt oppourtnities yet, but i've noticed it affects my game a lot. i'm just scared a bit to end up in bed and i need to say i'm still virgin at my age (above 20)

thanks

Author:  garthy [ Fri Aug 27, 2010 11:22 pm ]
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dude , once she wants to have sex , it doesnt matter wither ur a virgin or not , she will just wants to fuck you !!

just have fun and enjoy dont worry about being a virgin , the point for that is for you to have fun fucking her , she isnt paying you to please her , so dont get worried , just do it the way you like and enjoy :)

Author:  GKS [ Fri Aug 27, 2010 11:23 pm ]
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Once you get her on the bed, there is no way to hide it if you dont know what to do and come within 30 sec. Watching porn and doing it in real life are pretty different. It's best just be up front with her, rather than acting like a PUA champ then when it comes to action, you're worse than an AFC in bed.

Author:  Chicoman69 [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 2:17 am ]
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When I was first learning sex, I studied the shit out of the sex books and magazines. Men's Health, Maxim, FHM, etc... all have sex sections. Read these and some good sex books to learn how to really please the girls. Do not brag to girls that you are a virgin. When the time comes to fuck, you'll know what to do. Do your homework first though and you will perform much better.

May all your endevours be orgasmic,
Chicoman

Author:  StreetLight [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 2:35 am ]
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When I was first learning sex, I studied the shit out of the sex books and magazines. Men's Health, Maxim, FHM, etc... all have sex sections. Read these and some good sex books to learn how to really please the girls. Do not brag to girls that you are a virgin. When the time comes to fuck, you'll know what to do. Do your homework first though and you will perform much better.

May all your endevours be orgasmic,
Chicoman
BS
you CANNOT learn about sex without having sex
the only reall way to get good is to have a girlfriend, its not even to fuck a lot of one night stand girls, but to have a girlfriend you can actually feel free to experiment

and if a girl already likes u and ur in the BF category and youre young she won't mind (much) if she will feel she can educate u, and she can, so be open minded

Author:  Chicoman69 [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 9:20 am ]
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Forgive me for not being enlightened sexually when I was a virgin 10 years ago. I didn't lose my V-card til I was age 20. Was I good at sex the first few times? Hell no. I studied the freakin' manuals to know her clitoris from her nipple. It's my belief we all suck our first few times. Apocalyptica probably doesn't have a steady girlfriend to fuck and learn sex from, so I was giving him advice that worked for me. I studied my grandparent's gynaecology books as well to get a feel for how vaginas work. Reading the fucking manual can help immensely.

-Chicoman

Author:  Apocalyptica [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 9:33 am ]
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well, obviously i DO KNOW what to do.

i just wonder whether the difference between a male who has had sex before, and one that didn't had is so big they will for sure notice it.

maybe i should go to a hooker to overcome this problem and learn a bit? although it isnt a very nice thought after youve done it.

Author:  Trotyl [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 11:18 am ]
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Ye when you have had sex your dick pops like a flower, so chicks can see you've used your tool before.....

Author:  Junglepimp [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 12:06 pm ]
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Okay, go prepared. Watch porn, fap, don't keep the tank over-loaded.
There is this principle I follow when it comes to dealing with women I'm dealing with in a serious manner:

"Always tell her the truth, but only to the required extent".

If she does not ask, you do not tell. Period.

Author:  StreetLight [ Sun Aug 29, 2010 12:19 am ]
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Okay, go prepared. Watch porn, fap, don't keep the tank over-loaded.
There is this principle I follow when it comes to dealing with women I'm dealing with in a serious manner:

"Always tell her the truth, but only to the required extent".

If she does not ask, you do not tell. Period.
NOOOO don't gp prepared
preparation will just make you fucking nervouis

and girls might not notice your a virgin, coz there are a lot of "experienced" man who really suck at bed

Author:  Archetype [ Sun Aug 29, 2010 12:25 am ]
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being nervous will make you nervous

tbh if i had no idea about what i was about to do (i hadnt watched porn or read magazines on how to please a girl etc) then id be a lot more nrvous than just goin in completely green.

Author:  Junglepimp [ Sun Aug 29, 2010 4:37 am ]
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Okay, go prepared. Watch porn, fap, don't keep the tank over-loaded.
There is this principle I follow when it comes to dealing with women I'm dealing with in a serious manner:

"Always tell her the truth, but only to the required extent".

If she does not ask, you do not tell. Period.
NOOOO don't gp prepared
preparation will just make you fucking nervouis

and girls might not notice your a virgin, coz there are a lot of "experienced" man who really suck at bed
By prepared I mean prepared in terms of unloading and reducing the pressure (not the one in your mind, but the one in your... :wink: ). Of course planning what you'll do in bed and how you'll do it would make you nervous.

Author:  Melissa [ Sun Aug 29, 2010 9:13 am ]
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I would also just recommend being upfront with whoever you want to get intimate with. Don't pretend to be something you're not--that has too much potential to blow up in your face. You're also likely to be more realxed if you're being yourself as opposed to playing some role so that you can pull.

The truth is that some women probably won't want to have sex with you because you'rea a virgin, but plenty of others either won't care or would actually prefer it. In my opinion, you're best off avoiding the first sort anyway, because they're more likely to be judgemental and unforgiving--not things that you particularly need your first time. (Yes, I know that men and women place different value on their own virginity, but, knowing that men's sense of self-worth can often be linked to their skills in bed, it is best to try and avoid setting yourself up for either failure or a particularly hard time.)

Author:  StreetLight [ Sun Aug 29, 2010 11:59 am ]
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I would also just recommend being upfront with whoever you want to get intimate with. Don't pretend to be something you're not--that has too much potential to blow up in your face. You're also likely to be more realxed if you're being yourself as opposed to playing some role so that you can pull.

The truth is that some women probably won't want to have sex with you because you'rea a virgin, but plenty of others either won't care or would actually prefer it. In my opinion, you're best off avoiding the first sort anyway, because they're more likely to be judgemental and unforgiving--not things that you particularly need your first time. (Yes, I know that men and women place different value on their own virginity, but, knowing that men's sense of self-worth can often be linked to their skills in bed, it is best to try and avoid setting yourself up for either failure or a particularly hard time.)
++Agreed

Author:  Mr.Brownstone [ Sun Aug 29, 2010 1:00 pm ]
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i was lucky in a way that i was with the same woman for 7 years and although i'm an AFC im v experienced in bed and it shows with other women

the only problem i had was i learned what my ex liked and some women hate things like say biting nipples or being too rough etc

which i learned to my horror when i made one girl burst into tears hahaha

but it's just a learning curve like any other i dont think girls care so much about it but hmmm......

for me the more experience i get the less i value and enjoy sex :(

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