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| Author: | hacked [ Fri Aug 27, 2010 5:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Double Blow out... Any Advice? |
Ok so tuesday night two things happened. I met this young girl who just broke up with her boyfriend who has been cheating on her for awhile and so she's back in the singles arena. Well I get her number and so we text back and forth. I get her to the place that she wants to hang out. I try to make her plan something out but she says she can't think of anything. I throw her a few ideas (Far too many actually). So I tell her if we're gonna do this lets set something up right now (I'd been texting her all day and was getting bored). She says "Maybe". I decide to cut my losses and walk away. I give her a day without text and now today she either doesn't respond or takes ages to respond. I count his a fail but where do I go wrong? With girl number two we'd been hanging out at my house with a group of friends and I never really was that into her. We all go to the city to drink and party. And as the night went on not a lot of attraction. But she walked back to my house with me and I was gonna drive her home. We did some kissing in my room but it was 3am and she had a flight to catch in 4 hours. So I drive her home. At her house we made out very shortly in the car. She even invited me to stay with her in New York for like a weekend. But the more I would talk to her via text the more she seemed not actually interested. She says things like just friends and I told her I'm not going to make a trip to visit you if I'm going to be subjected to her floor every night alone. And she basically said thats what it would be if I came to visit her this fall before she comes back to and we can get to know each other better. I think i just got sent to the friend zone! To keep my frame I say I won't text her for like a week. Is that a good idea? Help me out here guys Give me help here guys. |
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| Author: | garthy [ Fri Aug 27, 2010 11:11 pm ] |
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well look , i dont see texting as a good idea call her better, if i was you i wouldnt text her . and only call her like one hour per day and lsn there is something about girls talk you gotta learn if she says no it doesnt mean no it means maybe , and if she said maybe it means yes , and if she said yes wich rarely happens you gotta deal with it then  and if you didnt get any responses , try finding another girl , dont stick on one , have many choices 
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| Author: | beegy [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 1:43 am ] |
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girl number 1 mistakes: to much texting, and u gave her too many choices, u got stuck in her reality, u didnt project the alpha characteristics. girl no.2 mistake : the general mistake is basically she wasn't ur target, no attraction. she gave u a fake IOI and u responded . u shouldve left it when she traveled. keep sargin.... we ALL MAKE MISTAKES |
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| Author: | Nyseto [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 7:35 pm ] |
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bermudamatt, if that girl comes back to you after making out her mind, you can get back at her by saying, "Well I thought about you saying maybe and I agree, there's too many pretty girls for the time being." As a guy, I don't even care if the girl makes up her mind to "go" with me. I am the man here. *I* make up MY mind, not her. I don't ask any girl and she gives me a maybe, I'm the one who says the "maybe." Get the attitude? There is also something else you could do which I love doing with girls and texting. Text her this, "Hey babe, where were you last night, couldn't find you." She'll be totally clueless and that's when you tell her, "Oh sorry, I sent it to the wrong person on my contacts list." Who gives a shit if she believes it or not, she can believe what she wants. If she tries to confront you about it, don't give her any fuel and just stay positive. |
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| Author: | Jav [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 7:43 pm ] |
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Don't be afraid to take the lead. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sun Aug 29, 2010 12:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Double Blow out... Any Advice? |
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She says things like just friends and I told her I'm not going to make a trip to visit you if I'm going to be subjected to her floor every night alone. And she basically said thats what it would be if I came to visit her this fall before she comes back to and we can get to know each other better.
This was a major mistake. You kissed so you obviously had attraction, so why not accept the trip offer and let that be the end of it. You basically said "so if I come visit you'll fuck me right?" Well what is a girl with an ounce of self-respect gonna say to that? You activated the ASD bigtime and of course she said the couch. The fact is, if you just be cool, she'll probably make a couch for you to convince herself that nothing's gonna happen but would be totally willing to sleep with you if you bothered to use push-pull, kino escalation, and playfulness together with sexuality to move the interaction towards sex in a comfortable, non-threatening way.Remember what Jack Nicholson says in "As Good as it Gets" when asked how he writes women so well? He says "I think of a man, then I take away reason, and accountability." That is absolutely spot on. Women to do not want to be accountable for their actions, especially when it comes to sex, and they do not respond to cold, hard logic. Take the responsibility for them, and flip their emotional switches, and suddenly "it just happened." |
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