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Author:  the.bear.jew [ Fri Aug 27, 2010 2:31 am ]
Post subject:  How to respond when a girl says your an ass?

I'm in high school and started talking to some girl.
And I noticed that EVERY SINGLE GUY on her facebook page
just kisses her ass and tells her how gorgeous and funny and cool she is.

I started talking to her and teased her a ton to separate myself from the crowd and was doing great.
I was using a ton of negs and stuff. But then she just responded with: "Your an ass"

How am I supposed to respond to this?
What do I say to make my response cocky/funny?

Any help is greatly appreciated.

Best,
David

Author:  Steel654 [ Fri Aug 27, 2010 3:10 am ]
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"You love me"

Perfect response! Works for me every time!

Author:  the.bear.jew [ Fri Aug 27, 2010 3:21 am ]
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I was thinking about saying something along the lines of, "You know you love it".

I wasn't sure what kind of response I would get from her considering she isn't an adult yet.

She's a 15 year old who is sensitive and self conscious like any other 15 year old girl.

Author:  Steel654 [ Fri Aug 27, 2010 3:24 am ]
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Well in that case, gaming her is probably useless.

Author:  KristallNachte [ Fri Aug 27, 2010 11:53 pm ]
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She wouldn't be talking to you if she legitimately thought you were an ass.

Author:  openMinded [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 9:37 am ]
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She's a 15 year old who is sensitive and self conscious like any other 15 year old girl.
Girls at this stage are more insecure.

that's a problem.

Author:  Shyler [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 10:11 am ]
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She wouldn't be talking to you if she legitimately thought you were an ass.
Not necesairly. Remember the girl is 15.

Answers like "Love you too! :lol: " or "that is why you love me" are great, if everything (even her "you're an ass") was playfull. But if she realy means it, you'll make it worse by saying it. She will say "no" or just ignore you.

Did she mean it or was it playfull?

Author:  Junglepimp [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 11:10 am ]
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Depends really.. did she say that with the an annoyed expression.. or the "omg how cud u" expression.. ? If she genuinely means it, she's a bitch. It's not her fault, it's the guys who kiss her ass and pamper her. If she doesn't genuinely mean it, you have a good chance. Make sure you don't overdo it though.

Author:  openMinded [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 11:39 am ]
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"So this is why we use negs and how they help us obtain our goals. They are used to control the frame and keep the perception of values where we want them. Now be care, it is possible to neg to much and push a girl away. Sometimes if a girl doesn't have a strong enough self image then a neg can have the reverse effect and just make you look like a jerk." http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Sexual ... id=1063689

Now this should explain your problem.

Author:  Nyseto [ Sat Aug 28, 2010 7:08 pm ]
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I notice the same too man!

ALWAYS ANSWER WITH THIS: "So what, what does that change?"

If she says you're an ass, a player, etc. always respond with that. It shows indifference that you don't give a shit, and it also implies that her calling you an ass or a player or anything bad will not change her to not liking you anymore.

Keep teasing after she says you're an ass but this time use some smilies in your text. A bit later than that, start pulling her in. It's the push/pull attraction theory. Pull her in by saying, "Well, it's just that personality matters most."

Author:  the.bear.jew [ Mon Aug 30, 2010 5:42 am ]
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I thought hard about my reply. I looked up to her and said with a smile: "Wow. You don't get out much. Guys always tease gorgeous girls."

It worked like magic.

Author:  Shyler [ Mon Aug 30, 2010 1:08 pm ]
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I thought hard about my reply. I looked up to her and said with a smile: "Wow. You don't get out much. Guys always tease gorgeous girls."

It worked like magic.
Wow! An awnser with balls and straight from the heart :lol: !
I like 8)

Author:  Paul Van Dyk [ Mon Aug 30, 2010 1:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to respond when a girl says your an ass?

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But then she just responded with: "Your an ass"

How am I supposed to respond to this?


Best,
David
You say, "You're an ass" back to her, except you use proper grammar and if you have to spell it you write "you're" instead of "your."

Author:  Fireball [ Mon Aug 30, 2010 1:58 pm ]
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David Deangelo recommends "Thank you! I'm glad you noticed."

Author:  cerebralassassin [ Mon Aug 30, 2010 2:09 pm ]
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i agree say thank you!

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