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Author:  adover [ Wed Aug 25, 2010 7:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Negging wars with girls! Any experience?
Hi all,
Since starting negging and C&F it's become a major part of my playful personality to take the piss out of and just generally have banter with women, some of them accept it and enjoy it, some of them don't - but then there's a special breed of women (the ones which seem to appeal to me most) that enjoy having full on NEG WARS!

Hopefully some of you have been there before, literally every conversation turns into a complete piss take, nothing gets taken seriously, and every shit test they give u gets turned into a piss take at them - it's a good enjoyable game to play, but most of the time very hard to transition because, even though you've got them in a good state, the second u try to transition to full on attraction with Kino and the like, they're still in the the zone of having a good old pisstaking laugh!

So - my questions are:

Any experience on this and stories?

And, obviously - what's the best way to transition to lays and k-closes from here? Giving IOI's or SOI's to them seems to fail every time!
Author:  Quackerbarrel [ Wed Aug 25, 2010 8:06 pm ]
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Unfortunately, neg wars can be a problem, especially if the girl you're talking to is super cocky and is used to having guys try to get with her.

I was actually caught in a neg war last night. After a bit, I just interjected and told her I was going to rejoin my friends. Just make sure you leave on a high note (a flirty neg).

When she comes back over and she's still negging, you can still play the game, but try to work in the next steps (DHV's, building emotional connections) Use Style's "pebbles." That way you can still neg, but you're also able to build on the relationship.

I hope this helps!
Author:  adover [ Wed Aug 25, 2010 8:17 pm ]
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Cheers for the advice, looked into style's pebbles and have actually been working them in without knowing the label that style placed on them!

Usually these negging wars only happen with the confident and cocky girls as u say - but this is usually when its quite a way into the interaction (one was at a festival and went on for a few hours and the main one is currently a facebook conversation thread in between trying to sort out a day 2).

The thing is, they are obviously loving the interaction, but they foil the plan instantly when trying to slow down the interaction or trying to escalate - it's like an attempt to control the frame, which, it seems, is only possible to control yourself, by hammering them with negs and heavy push pull (usually by push, push, push, push, push, pull, push, push routines!)

The worst thing is, it's the challenge that these girls present that makes them so god damn attractive because they're always at least a hb8! :)
Author:  Quackerbarrel [ Wed Aug 25, 2010 8:44 pm ]
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Hey man, if they're still negging for hours at least you know that they're interested and it's still on! If you want to take it to the next step, then I'd put the ball in her court. Let her be the one to ease out of negging. Just keep track of where the ball is.
Author:  Jon Paul [ Wed Aug 25, 2010 11:13 pm ]
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yeah don't let it run on too long! bt why not have a lil fun along the way :D
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