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Author:  _129 [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 6:47 pm ]
Post subject:  How to make her chase me?
I'm currently chasing her. So, how do I make her chase me.

She chased me for the first 2 months, now I've been chasing her for the past 2 months.

How do I change this back to how it was, her chasing me?

I'm afraid if I cease contact she won't care and just move on... But she tells me she likes me so I don't know what to do.
Author:  Solteris [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 7:53 pm ]
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By chasing her, you give her validation in herself. I dont like the idea of "chasing" a woman. If she really does like you, she'll keep you around her.

By chasing her, she doesn't have to give any effort to keep you around, and that makes you "easy" and not as much fun as you could be.

She chased you once and if she has any feelings for you she will once again. By pursuing her you wont get the results you want. Sometimes you gotta choose the harder option to get the best results.

I'd ease off of her a bit. There's a huge world of other women. Keep that attractive lifestyle going and make her miss that time you "chased" her. If you want a real relationship with this woman, best thing to do is to back off and let her sweat it out a bit.

You'll be amazed at how well this'll work. I've had women that I thought would never talk to me again seek me out after months and months and want to be in my life again. That small absence of your presence can do wonders.

All I know is chasing her and always being around her will never ever result in that fairy tale romance we all want.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 8:30 pm ]
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Solteris is bang on.

I have nothing to add other than WHAT THE FUCK WERE YOU DOING HAVING HER "CHASE YOU" FOR TWO FUCKING MONTHS WITHOUT BANGING THE SHIT OUT OF HER ALREADY???
Author:  _129 [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 10:28 pm ]
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Quote:
By chasing her, you give her validation in herself. I dont like the idea of "chasing" a woman. If she really does like you, she'll keep you around her.

By chasing her, she doesn't have to give any effort to keep you around, and that makes you "easy" and not as much fun as you could be.

She chased you once and if she has any feelings for you she will once again. By pursuing her you wont get the results you want. Sometimes you gotta choose the harder option to get the best results.

I'd ease off of her a bit. There's a huge world of other women. Keep that attractive lifestyle going and make her miss that time you "chased" her. If you want a real relationship with this woman, best thing to do is to back off and let her sweat it out a bit.

You'll be amazed at how well this'll work. I've had women that I thought would never talk to me again seek me out after months and months and want to be in my life again. That small absence of your presence can do wonders.

All I know is chasing her and always being around her will never ever result in that fairy tale romance we all want.
Thanks man. Appreciate it.

Based on the info I've given do you think she'll chase me if I do what you said?

Also, I haven't heard from her in 24 hours. How do I resist the urge to call/text her right now? I know it won't do any good to contact her, but how do I stop the temptation?
Author:  Horsepower [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 10:34 pm ]
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I'm a noob to this, but even I know the answer to that:

GO AFTER MORE GIRLS
Author:  Solteris [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 10:41 pm ]
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Based on the info I've given do you think she'll chase me if I do what you said?

Also, I haven't heard from her in 24 hours. How do I resist the urge to call/text her right now? I know it won't do any good to contact her, but how do I stop the temptation?
Well, I cant guarantee it but if she did chase you and you two are on good terms then I dont see why she wouldn't be curious about where you went.

I would imagine your someone that she does like, but neediness can cloud that in an instant. By fading away for a while, your showing her you have options and that she's only one option of many. That's women's kryptonite. You swooned over her and made her feel fantastic about herself and now thats gone.

"Where did that great guy go that made feel so great about myself? Is he making other women feel that way? I wonder what he's doing right now...."

Find a way to resist that urge. Go for a drive, take a walk, hang out with a friend. Remind yourself you can have a carefree life without keeping in constant contact with her. Your training yourself just as much as your messing with her. Learn to detach from these situations at times and that'll help you throughout life.

Wish you the best man. Im here to help if I can :)
Author:  _129 [ Tue Aug 24, 2010 12:11 am ]
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Right on thanks!

I can guarantee she'll text/call within 3 days. I'll let you know what she says, how she acts etc.
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