What if you are not interested in other girls ? what if you've dated like 100 girls already and this girl is the one you've found and for some reason she is a lesbian, and she has some other guy chasing her (also for a very long time) ?

What do you do?

If a girl is not interested she is not interested. How hard is that to understand? What if some ugly old woman was crushing on you? If you are not attracted to her there is nothing she can do.

You are still under the impression that one woman is different from another. This thinking can fuck you up. There is nothing special about this girl.

"If a girl is not interested she is not interested. How hard is that to understand?"

Hence I ask this question. It's a feat.

Honestly man.. there is nothing you can do. I know its not what you want to here, but its the truth.

All you can do is show interest. If that interest is not returned.. you say "next". Thats the difference between a PUA and a AFC.

That's why people keep telling me I should just go find some other girls move on and when I get the skills to do it come back. But truth is somethings are not even possible with the experience you have and gain.

You may now be able to pick up many womans and get them laid and interested in you for a STR, but what's the use of that when you can't even use it to get what matters most to you at that moment in time?

There's got to be a way. That way is through witnessing how others have accomplish this feat in the past and learning from it to overcome a similar thing.

I asked a question about this, but no one answered (so I ended up deleting the post). I think I know the reason why now.

NO such thing as AFC. AFC knows what they are doing and why they are being AFC.

Only if i was AFC right now, perhaps I would give up hopes of getting her.

The thing is.. no matter how good your skills get, there will always be women who are not interested in you. There is no man who can have any woman he wants. There will always be a woman he can't have.

Skills will give you more options.. mostly because you'll be able to meet women a lot easier and faster than men with no skills. But having skills doesn't mean you magically get EVERY girl you want. Even the top PUA's get rejected. Its all part of the game.

You have to be realistic and know when to say "next".

here are 2 examples of boyfriend destroyer:

You're sort of seeing someone? As you're only sort of seeing that image of him in your mind, notice what happens as that image gets smaller and darker only as fast as an image of you and me being together having lots of fun gets big and brighter right there in its place.

Now as you look at that picture right there, doesn't it seem like something you really want. Oh yea, in fact, doesn't it seem like something that's already happened and there's no point resisting it cause it's too late to do anything but smile that smile of deep satisfaction and know this is going to be incredible. Oh yea, great, so when can I pick you up?"


or

Well, look I really enjoyed this, and I'd like to talk to you again sometime? Can I call you? You have a boyfriend?

Well, I have to admit I'm disappointed, I have to respect that you're in a relationship. But let me ask you a something. How surprised would you be to find yourself actually looking forward to spending a little time with me? I mean, maybe to the point where you could imagine us over coffee, laughing and having the best of time, and you starting to feel really comfortable with it? As you think about it like that, doesn't seem natural to meet like Monday or Tuesday for coffee?