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Author:  hfl [ Sat Aug 21, 2010 5:33 pm ]
Post subject:  she playing mind games i think...

ok so i met this girl and we dated couple times and its was going great
there is attraction kino comfort trust,so far so good but i sometime i feel she
playing with me like she say stupid stuff like her friend had a crush on me and i rejected her friend so she say maybe i should date her to see if we good for each other or when i tell her goodbye i kinda convince her to kiss me goodbye
but when we on the date shes all over me hugging me kiss me lay on me i touch her in intimate and she touch me and shes enjoy it and kinda offer her to be togther and shes say she she dont know because the longest gf i had was for week max anyway im lost
what should i do ?

Author:  NonStopReaper [ Sat Aug 21, 2010 8:55 pm ]
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obvisouly she into to you and she want to be with you, but she doent know if you are gonna be faithful to her. she testing your commitment by toying with you. She likes you but doesnt trust you in a relationship. All girls play with your mind even if you are her b/f they will always test you, ALWAY. Its there way of Getting validation from you emotionally and physically. Get use to it. Its how you re-act and say to them will make a diffrenece. The question is, Are you willing to commit with this girl or not? If no. I'd advise you to let her know ahead of time to avoid any further complication. You can say

" i like you alot and i love hanging out with you but i'm not ready to commit to a serious relationship"

saying this will convey that you are truthful to her and respect her feeling and she'll thank you for this. If you want to commit to her then take it to the next step. I'd advise you to add this to the Relationship section.

Author:  hfl [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 4:35 am ]
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im willing to commit to this girl because she fun being around
and she like me we have alot in common but how do i tell her that ,i dont wanna sound like she won me that will be bad no ?
how i show her that im gonna stick around without being to obivous that i like her ?

Author:  Junglepimp [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 5:23 am ]
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Just one word of advice, be a better challenge. When you become a victim of her challenges (or games, as you call it), you display a lower status. Be equally playful and shoot such comments of hers down in a playful, humorous way. And at times you can throw such fun comments at her as well :wink: , all in the spirit of fun.

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