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Author:  rename [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 10:57 am ]
Post subject:  lying about my sexual experience
Okay i'll come straight out and say it, im a virgin at 19 years of age.

So this HB8 i been gaming recently asked me how many girls I've slept with, I ofcourse being embarrassed about being a virgin at this age, told her I've slept with 3 (i don't know why that number). She later told me that she's slept with 7 guys, 2 of them being virgins. Now this is the part that I'm worried about, because she knows what virgins are like in bed, she'll most likely realise that i lied to her about that status (sooner or later ima f-close her cos i know she wants me). My question is should i tell her that i lied about that or what should i do?

thanks in advance, rename
Author:  Tebu [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 1:34 pm ]
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I'm probably worse. Not only am I also a virgin ( 18 ) and tell girls I've had experience. I even have their names and our relationship and issues in my head (lies) prepared for if I'm ever questioned. If you do make sweet love to her and you're a little clumsy. Just say it's "been a while" if she mentions it. If not just act casual. What other way is there around it?
Author:  GetmetheGirl [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 1:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: lying about my sexual experience
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Okay i'll come straight out and say it, im a virgin at 19 years of age.

So this HB8 i been gaming recently asked me how many girls I've slept with, I ofcourse being embarrassed about being a virgin at this age, told her I've slept with 3 (i don't know why that number). She later told me that she's slept with 7 guys, 2 of them being virgins. Now this is the part that I'm worried about, because she knows what virgins are like in bed, she'll most likely realise that i lied to her about that status (sooner or later ima f-close her cos i know she wants me). My question is should i tell her that i lied about that or what should i do?

thanks in advance, rename
Hi there rename,

I don't recommend delivering personal information to anyone in your life (full stop) isn't it better to remain mysterious. I have a policy that I had my entire life not to name my number, you'd think that'd make girls secretive about their own sex life right? No, by standing your ground in a non-fearful way but from a place of strength it gives you ultimate bargaining power. There's certain themes that are brought up from answering questions in unusual means, i try and provoke a 'oh fuck' response. When I tell people that "I don't reveal my number" people tend to think "omg... he's slept with alot" I find its only people who are struggling with their own issues that make the opposite assumption.
But thats the point, your trying to attract a life that is better than what you previously had, and in order to achieve that you need to give the illusion of success 'fake it till you make it'
It never means lying, but it does mean delivering a character that is completely congruent with your idealised version of yourself (the powerful self you recognize that you could be in the future) and live from that persona today!

A common question girls ask me is, "where I'm from" my typical response would be something along the lines of "worst question ever.... name a place?" I think by being completely in control of your personal data gives you complete power with which you can playfully reveal your inner secrets in exchange for her opening her world and giving you voting rights.

Hope you gain from this,
Vince Lynch
Author:  Apocalyptica [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 6:19 pm ]
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is a girl for sure going to see that you are a virgin?

you can drink something and say you are a little bit drunk

or indeed: "it has been a while"

but i wonder if they all will notice immediately?
Author:  cerebralassassin [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 7:38 pm ]
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theres nothing wrong with being a virgin at 19, i lost mine at 19 however theres nothing great about it either. to be honest i wouldnt brag about conquests if youre a virgin youll get caught out when you lose it, dont talk about sexual history, and sadly a fact of life is the first time you have sex its not gonna be great sex dont get an idea that youre gonna walk in like a porn star and pound away for hours!
Author:  KristallNachte [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 9:45 pm ]
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um, dude, just be confident in who you are. you're a virgin, so what? why the fuck should she care?
Author:  Apocalyptica [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 10:20 pm ]
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um, dude, just be confident in who you are. you're a virgin, so what? why the fuck should she care?
isn't it a bid weird for her? looking as the cool guy and then say i never fucked before.. DLV.....
Author:  KristallNachte [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 10:51 pm ]
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not at all, its only DLV if you let it be.
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Thu Aug 19, 2010 12:33 am ]
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I think one thing a lot of guys overlook is the fact that you are only a virgin until you have sex. So it doesn't really matter what you tell the first girl. Chances are you wont still be talking to her 5 years from now or even 5 months from now.

So say you are not a virgin if you prefer that. Or say you are a virgin if you think that will work. Either way.. once you fuck her you will not be a virgin anymore. Then you can learn from your mistakes and be better for the next girl.

Look at the big picture, not the small one. There are so many women out there that it really doesn't matter if you fuck up with 5, 10, 15 or even 100 of them. There will always be another woman to start fresh with.
Author:  Nyseto [ Fri Aug 20, 2010 5:36 pm ]
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I would have told her, "Are you usually this nosy about others' sex life? You'll find out soon enough if you want to know so bad."
Author:  BaconBisquit [ Fri Aug 20, 2010 6:00 pm ]
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I don't think that you being a virgin will have any effect.
A guy who slept with a 100 girls, can be just as bad as a virgin in bed?
Some times the guys that things "Oh im so good, im the best" is actually the worst!

I would tell her the truth. Say "Hey - im a virign, and so what? Wanna do me?"
Girls like to be "that special girl" in a guys life. I don't think she is gonna turn you down, if your being honest. And its a good sign that she's been with two other virgins. She knows how to handle them ;)
But if you keep lying, and end up sleeping with her and she thinks like "What the F...??" She will KNOW you're a virgin and maybe she will get mad at you for being unhonest and lying to her?

Good luck!
Author:  Nyseto [ Fri Aug 20, 2010 6:12 pm ]
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Chances are she is a virgin too. A true person who lost his/her virginity, never discusses the specifics of their sex life such as putting the virgins into one statistic, and the non-virgins into another.

When girls ask these type of questions, it is best to give them a yes and no answer. It creates mystery and mystery is something we always think about until we solve it. By doing that, she will think about it and relate it to you (depending on how much she cares about your sex life).

Or the other alternative (if you have a bit more balls), is to call her out for it. It will display high value.

It's best to use either one of those two depending on the situation. If you barely, barely know her, use the second one.
Author:  afc_gone [ Fri Aug 20, 2010 7:04 pm ]
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For all you know you can be a natural god in bed. If not...hey you've only had sex with 3 girls (or so she thinks). Just use a condom in case you cum in like one second:) You just say to yourself: "This was the best sex so far (wich is true)"
You gotta know somethin about women...if she really likes you she'll be happy you 2 got physical and It won't matter so much the quality.
Author:  Chief [ Fri Aug 20, 2010 7:44 pm ]
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You should never have to lie in seduction. There is always an advantage to honesty over dishonesty. ALWAYS. Look for it next time you decide to avoid the truth.
Author:  rename [ Sat Aug 21, 2010 12:51 pm ]
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thanks for all the replies guys, a little update here. A few days ago we were on the subject again and she mentioned that she would actually prefer that i were a virgin. Looking back on it, this should have been the golden opportunity for me to come clean about the truth but I just ignored it and for some reason at the time i thought it was some kind of trap so she could prove i was lying about my "history". I feel like at this point, I've gone too far with the lie and it would be a huge DLV if i told her i lied.
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