PUA Forum :: .:: AFC phrase to avoid

I realized I subconsciously said some habit AFC phrase last night even though my game was success. Just thought it would be nice to make a list of those common AFC mistake so people can be aware of. I'll start first:

1. "I'll see you soon?" - totally AFC part of me, I deserve a kick in the butt.
2. "Drive safe" - I'm not totally sure about this one
3. "Babe"

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"i'll see you soon" (no ?) is the opposite of afc, just a little inflection in the voice can mean the difference.

it's all about delivery and the situation.

i personally use things like drive safely and have a good night, there's nothing wrong with a good set of manners.

So when do you want to go for a coffee with me?

So if a guy asked you out for a coffee right now, and the guy was kinda-sorta like me, and kinda-sorta liked you and kinda-sorta wanted to go out with you, what would your response be?

Author:	GKS [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 7:08 pm ]
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I realized I subconsciously said some habit AFC phrase last night even though my game was success. Just thought it would be nice to make a list of those common AFC mistake so people can be aware of. I'll start first: 1. "I'll see you soon?" - totally AFC part of me, I deserve a kick in the butt. 2. "Drive safe" - I'm not totally sure about this one 3. "Babe"

Author:	NonStopReaper [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 8:15 pm ]
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4) you are so beautiful 5) can i buy you a drink? 6) hi my name is_____ 7) can i ask you a question? not really phrases to avoid but if said right off the bat will trigger her auto-response.

Author:	Sayha [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 8:37 pm ]
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may i invite you to ___?

Author:	Chelios [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:13 pm ]
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Could be a well put together list, but once your past a certain stage and/or getting into a relationship, a lot of them are acceptable, just don't over do it, you need to show a girl in a relationship some sense of security and comfort, with compliments, making plans etc, again, don't over do it, know your limits.

Author:	Stand Up [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 11:14 pm ]
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Quote: I realized I subconsciously said some habit AFC phrase last night even though my game was success. Just thought it would be nice to make a list of those common AFC mistake so people can be aware of. I'll start first: 1. "I'll see you soon?" - totally AFC part of me, I deserve a kick in the butt. 2. "Drive safe" - I'm not totally sure about this one 3. "Babe" "i'll see you soon" (no ?) is the opposite of afc, just a little inflection in the voice can mean the difference.

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Author:	Paul Van Dyk [ Wed Aug 18, 2010 8:13 am ]
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Quote: Quote: I realized I subconsciously said some habit AFC phrase last night even though my game was success. Just thought it would be nice to make a list of those common AFC mistake so people can be aware of. I'll start first: 1. "I'll see you soon?" - totally AFC part of me, I deserve a kick in the butt. 2. "Drive safe" - I'm not totally sure about this one 3. "Babe" "i'll see you soon" (no ?) is the opposite of afc, just a little inflection in the voice can mean the difference. I think the inflection on the end makes it very AFC. It's like, "can we please hang out again soon?" Saying it without the inflection with alot of cockiness to it is great IMO. It's assuming the sale. Like you're calling the shots. Like, .... "I'll see ya again soon. (period not a question mark). Later gurl!

Author:	Mr.Shiver [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 1:17 pm ]
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Delivery is huge in all phrases said. In saying that 'drive safely' isn't something I'd say, but as for 'see you soon' etc, delivered correctly in a possibly cheeky manor (which is how I personally would use it) is fine and not AFC at all.

Author:	puacurly [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 9:40 am ]
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it's all about delivery and the situation. i personally use things like drive safely and have a good night, there's nothing wrong with a good set of manners.

Author:	Zephyrine [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 8:45 pm ]
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The worst of all time is the "sweet dreams" text message every AFC seems to send after a good first date date. Lord in heaven, let me brush my teeth before you bombard me with such chumpy sentiments! Also any time a guy asks me about other guys ("so I bet guys approach you all the time" or "so like, how many boyfriends do you have right now?") I want to barf. So pathetic.

Author:	Chelios [ Tue Aug 24, 2010 6:24 pm ]
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Quote: it's all about delivery and the situation. i personally use things like drive safely and have a good night, there's nothing wrong with a good set of manners. I agree, manners important, can set you from the rest, jus don't go too deep. Also for the post by Z, sweet dreams is good if she's your GF, keeping her sweet is good.

Author:	Junglepimp [ Tue Aug 24, 2010 6:42 pm ]
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All indirect proposals are AFC in my opinion. It shows that you lack confidence to ask the women out in a straight-forward manner and are looking to sneak an opportunity out. You sound fearful of rejection. Quote: So when do you want to go for a coffee with me? instead of Quote: So if a guy asked you out for a coffee right now, and the guy was kinda-sorta like me, and kinda-sorta liked you and kinda-sorta wanted to go out with you, what would your response be? is PUA.

Author:	Teknine [ Tue Aug 24, 2010 9:17 pm ]
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how about some "clauses"... "or something" "sometime"

Author:	Dither [ Tue Aug 24, 2010 9:23 pm ]
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"Call me if you want to do this again" When I first said that (I knew the date already failed), I felt as if my pride was shooting out of my mouth along with those words.

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