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Author:  quakebks [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 2:59 am ]
Post subject:  pushing girls away
well this is a big issue obviously. ive have never been one to approach but i meet girls often as in classes and what not. i feel that i do show confidence, and cocky/funny personality along with the witty lines but i seem to push girls away. im not sure where im going wrong. i understand that im not goin to get every girl but i dont quite get why im pushing them away. i was hoping some one on here could give me some guidance/pointers or maybe help me figure out where im goin wrong.
Author:  StreetLight [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 3:29 am ]
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Are you doing something to pull them to you? Coz if not.. here's your answer
Author:  quakebks [ Thu Aug 19, 2010 6:06 am ]
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what is your methods on pulling girls to you? i think im carrying the right attitude but lack the attraction aspect. any help
Author:  openMinded [ Thu Aug 19, 2010 6:11 am ]
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what is your methods on pulling girls to you? i think im carrying the right attitude but lack the attraction aspect. any help
Pushing all girls or just some???

Maybe a rumor been spread about you :)?
Author:  StreetLight [ Fri Aug 20, 2010 11:18 am ]
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what is your methods on pulling girls to you? i think im carrying the right attitude but lack the attraction aspect. any help
Do you escalate, if your alone with a girl do you make it personal, and later physical?
You can be as funny as you want, but being too cocky is good for parties not chitchat, you have to be personal she must want to know more about you, not just hear another joke
Author:  quakebks [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 10:43 pm ]
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i know how to escalate physically but how do i make it more personal through convo?
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 11:25 pm ]
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i know how to escalate physically but how do i make it more personal through convo?
Ask her what she likes to do for fun. Ask her about her hopes and dreams.

Its possible you are just trying too hard. If you are pushing girls away it must be that. I almost never push girls away and I don't even have the best game.

You just have to have fun. Flirt with them.. but be relaxed. Don't rush, don't obsess and don't focus all your attention on ONE girl. There are too many girls to meet for that.
Author:  openMinded [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 11:43 pm ]
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i know how to escalate physically but how do i make it more personal through convo?
You don't get personal until you've built rapport.

First focus on building rapport, then when you notice that she starts asking information about you, then you know you can get personal.

getting personal just by sharing a story about yourself. telling her about what you do. to build some sort of charisma.

if she gets personal too and decides to share about her story, then you guys have just built a strong emotional connection.

And there! a bond is now made. you've guys shared something that connects each other.

If she doesn't reciprocate, move on.
Author:  quakebks [ Tue Aug 24, 2010 5:27 pm ]
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so today was my first day of classes and i saw a hb9. so i figured i would get the seat next to her. she seemed a little cocky, so i started up some small talk to get her laughing a little. but after a minute or two she still had her bitch shield up. she seemed to drop it some but not all the way. we never had a real conversation because of class just small talk. how would you go about it next class?
Author:  Junglepimp [ Tue Aug 24, 2010 5:44 pm ]
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Do you make sure you're being yourself, not making any indirect proposals, not saying things which you expect her to "figure out" on her own and not being weird?
Author:  quakebks [ Wed Aug 25, 2010 1:35 am ]
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so what should be my next step with the girl i just met that i posted about earlier?
Author:  robizeratul [ Thu Aug 26, 2010 4:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: pushing girls away
you need to connect with them,ask them something and truly listen!you will be surprised!
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