hi guys, there's the thing, i work in a bank, as a teller, i started to go to lunch in an art coffee and the waitress is my kind of girl, lol, pretty, cute, and love '70 rock, so, i start whit what for a bank employee ,( at least here in argentina) is my second nature, cocky and funny, so, i've been playfull, and a few more things, and thanks that i'm an artist also ( painting) and the advice form fine pleople from here, i beginto pick up some body language from her and the owner, ( cool dude), i often catch him lookin us like specting from something to happen , the thing is., i only have 40 min to lunch, so betwen the time i get to that coffe shop, i order, and eat, there's not much time left to game her,at least whit my poor skills at this moment, so ( last monday she told me about her weekend and how so many guys try to pick her up , i act indiferent , like o yeah sure . while i was thinking wtf!! lol)
a few days later, i find out she play guitar, and piano, i'm restart the guitar lesson in a rock academy here, so i pop up the issue by talking whit the owner of that place ( he is no danger), knowing she will listening. a min later she aproach me requesting for the phone or mail of the rock place and i saw the chance to exchange phone numbers. and i did it. 15 min later, she aproach me again, her hand on my shoulder put her face a few inches of mine and aske me, what is ur name? here we know you as the bank guy.... ( ioi right? )
, work was hell all week so i wasn't abble to go to that bar for 3 days , when i was abble to went there last friday as soon i enter the place she display all kinds of ioi pretty much jump me to say hello.. this girl loves cat and it happens that i own one, so whit the idea of meet her outside her enviroment i play a bit and we agree that she will go out whit me to take my cat to the veterinary ( really my idea is she going to my neighbourhood, pass to my apartment, pick up the kitty and share a date that didn't looks like one ) buuuuuuut my cell runs out of power and i was free of work 2 hours later than i ussualy do.so i couldn't call her. crap,. ( it's ok say crap here right??) this was a loong weekend and on saturday, i send her a text message " what a nice day to eat chocolat!! ( here is winter, and was cold cloudy... she answer me saying i didn't get up of bed yet.. i guess it must be.... i text her back " c'mon lazy is late! get up of bed or i wil send my kitty to wake u up! " ( lame i know) . no answer.
any sugestion about how i can succed??
i'm kinda new on the game.i found about it 6 month ago .i'm 35 yo and thepast, 3 years ago i broke up whit my ex, then my dad died, a year to recover, then my mom almost die for a vicious heartattack so , it was quite rough for me to recover and then ......i find out about this community, and i say to me, this is what i need.
sorry if this was too long and bored, lol, i'm learn english by miself so , don't kill me if in same places i murdered the language
