Hey all. Last week, I broke up with my girlfriend of 15 months and its been tough. It didn't end poorly, but it just wasn't what it used to be. I don't harbor ill will against her, but the thought of her hooking up with someone else now makes me almost physically sick. I have considered hooking up with someone else, but I decided that it does not appeal to me yet. I beat around the bush about it with her and she seemed a little more willing to hook up with someone than I am and it kinda messed with my mind. We both go to the same college and I move in to my apartment a week before she moves in to hers, but she starts work at school before she moves in, so a long time ago I promised she could stay with me for 5 nights so she can go to work. I really, REALLY regret this now that we are broken up, but I am too nice to tell her she cannot stay with me. I just feel like it will be counter productive to me getting over her. I just want to reach a point where I don't care what she does anymore. Any advice on how to get over this? And any guidelines for her stay that you could recommend for me? I probably shouldn't sleep with her, but I may not be strong enough not to. Thanks in advance.
Grappler
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