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| Author: | Ethan Hunt [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 1:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Old one-itis chasing me now? |
Every since the beginning of high school I had serious oneitis for this HB8. My freshman year I tried and tried to get her to date me but I was stuck in the friend zone. I did everything I could...including some very embarassing things like write her poetry and sh!t. It got to a point where she admitted she liked me, but her friends didn't and that screwed me over. For the rest of high school I layed off trying to get with her, even though we would flirt back and forth a lot and I still showed her plenty of affection even though I knew I could never get anywhere with her. So the day before my senior year of school starts she calls me and tells me a sob story how all her friends hate her now and she really needs someone to hang out with at school. I agreed to let her "tag along" with me but since I semi know what I am doing now I made sure I didn't sound excited at all. Since then she has texted and called me a lot and tries to hang out with me and actually invited me to a party about ten minutes ago (which I declined). So my question is, is she interested in me at all? Or is she just using me so she can have someone to hang out with and not look like a reject? And what steps should I be taking to turn this situation into a relationship...or at least f-closing? |
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| Author: | StreetLight [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 2:21 am ] |
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There's this thing about some "friends" that it's sorta you want her, you showed her, and she is DYING for you to take her already, but now you created a really big thing out off all of it... in other words.. she's there for the taking, BUT, if you won't you'll stay in the friends zone forever |
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| Author: | CharlieKelly [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 4:11 am ] |
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Learn about psychology dude |
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| Author: | StreetLight [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 11:32 am ] |
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Quote: Learn about psychology dude
huh?
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| Author: | Ethan Hunt [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 6:51 pm ] |
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Ok, so she is into me. Now what? How do I escalate the relationship? |
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| Author: | neos [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 11:20 pm ] |
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ethan just use standard game, try and go for a kiss, rejection is nothing in this world. if you push her away too much she may never return. but the idea of her not being around for a year before may of made her think how much she liked you. just got for a kiss close in a ISOLATED area. dont do it infront of everyone and see how it goes. neos |
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| Author: | Ethan Hunt [ Sun Aug 15, 2010 1:11 am ] |
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Will do, Neos. I'll give it a shot and post how it goes. |
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| Author: | Ethan Hunt [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:23 pm ] |
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Well, after you told me to show interest in her and try to go for a k-close, I did just that. I thought about it and made a game plan. Once I had everything pre-planned in my mind, I texted her and arranged a Day 2, but apparently she was only interested in me for about 48 hours, because she said she was going to be there, but when the time came she flaked. And when I see her at school she shows very little signs of interest. So that was pretty sucky, but at least I know now when that happens to only be disinterested for a VERY SHORT amount of time. |
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