PUA Forum :: Get HER number or give her YOURS??

Disagree. It's a good idea to have your name in her phone, it will make you more memorable and will make her more likely to answer than a random number coming up. How many times have you texted a girl and she texted back, "Hey, I just got a new phone so I lost all my numbers. Who is this again?" You lose value no matter how you respond to that. Making sure she has your number doesn't make you needy unless she's weird about it.

Also disagree with waiting 2-3 days, that gives her plenty of time to forget your interaction and you lose all momentum. It's a stupid, stupid rule that people made up so they wouldn't look "needy". You know what? It also makes you look like you're not really interested, which isn't as much of a turn on to anyone, male or female.

Author:	henning [ Fri Aug 13, 2010 12:03 am ]
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I have heard many mixed theories regardinjg getting her number. Any girl can just give you a number not even if its reallt hers and the odds are always questionable IF she really is into you. I also heard its better to give her your number instead because if she does contact you first by text or talk, then she IS interested, thus avoiding all confusion period? Thoughts?

Author:	minsok [ Fri Aug 13, 2010 1:56 am ]
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You do both. You want her to have your info in her phone so she knows who's calling. I've found that if you give your number first, a girl is more likely to give you hers in exchange, too. You know what would be really cocky is if you texted her a picture of yourself to use as the caller id. That'd be pretty slick. If she has your number, she can randomly text you. If you have her number, you can call her the next day if you don't hear from her. All. Bases. Covered.

Author:	Steel654 [ Fri Aug 13, 2010 3:27 am ]
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Never ever only give a girl YOUR number! That's a classic shit test. If she says "no you give me your number" you say "oh do guys still go for that line?". Cheers!

Author:	Paxter [ Fri Aug 13, 2010 3:40 am ]
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Take her number instead of giving her yours. If after she gives you her number she still insists to give her yours, then give it to her. If not, don`t. It will take too much time and will show that you are really needy if you take the time to also write down your number, an unnecessary feat as you already have hers. This way, YOU will be in control of the entire situation. You will have the ability to choose the moment when to call her (generally, my rule says 2 to 3 days after getting the number). *Hint: avoid SMS. Although calls are quite impersonal, texts are even worse. You might not get an answer to a text - you will not feel the voice tone - you will not pick up voice signals. I really hope this reply will help you sort out your style. Good luck with your sarging! Paxter out.

Author:	minsok [ Fri Aug 13, 2010 10:20 am ]
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Disagree. It's a good idea to have your name in her phone, it will make you more memorable and will make her more likely to answer than a random number coming up. How many times have you texted a girl and she texted back, "Hey, I just got a new phone so I lost all my numbers. Who is this again?" You lose value no matter how you respond to that. Making sure she has your number doesn't make you needy unless she's weird about it. Also disagree with waiting 2-3 days, that gives her plenty of time to forget your interaction and you lose all momentum. It's a stupid, stupid rule that people made up so they wouldn't look "needy". You know what? It also makes you look like you're not really interested, which isn't as much of a turn on to anyone, male or female.

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Author:	Paxter [ Fri Aug 13, 2010 2:51 pm ]
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Quote: Disagree. It's a good idea to have your name in her phone, it will make you more memorable and will make her more likely to answer than a random number coming up. How many times have you texted a girl and she texted back, "Hey, I just got a new phone so I lost all my numbers. Who is this again?" You lose value no matter how you respond to that. Making sure she has your number doesn't make you needy unless she's weird about it. Also disagree with waiting 2-3 days, that gives her plenty of time to forget your interaction and you lose all momentum. It's a stupid, stupid rule that people made up so they wouldn't look "needy". You know what? It also makes you look like you're not really interested, which isn't as much of a turn on to anyone, male or female. Minsok, thanks for the feedback. Regarding the your first paragraph, you may be right, but think that girls do not usually give their number to just anyone. If she gives you the number, she is expecting a call from an unfamiliar number. Then again, she might have been high on crack when she gave the number and forget the whole thing. The 2 to 3 days period worked like magic, at least in my case. As everyone is different, I'm sure that you might encounter situations where the 2 to 3 days period might seem a little too much. A good PUA is the one who knows when to bend the rules. If this rule need bending, it will be bent. It just depends on the situation. Hope to hear more of your feedback and ideas. Paxter

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