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Author:  chick MAGNETO [ Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Bulgarian woman WTF?
Hi all,

I met this cute bulgarian woman who is a ph.d student at my college. we talked and i got her phone number and email. later i texted her saying nice to meet u..there was no reply..so i decided to do some text game using adam lyons method..so next day i texted:

Read this and try not to think of me. and added a smiley :)

next day she emails me this:

one more sms like that and i will block you. ur strategy will work against 16 year old girls but not with a woman like me..i am not into this i started talking to you bcoz of ur nice facade thing..u dont know how to behave with a woman..

I was really shocked..but what the fuck? is it a cultural thing?..she is a student from bulgaria..do they need to be handled much different from american women..anyone with any experiences with bulgarian or slavic women?what did i do wrong?
Author:  Maestro von Karajan [ Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bulgarian woman WTF?
Quote:
Hi all,

I met this cute bulgarian woman who is a ph.d student at my college. we talked and i got her phone number and email. later i texted her saying nice to meet u..there was no reply..so i decided to do some text game using adam lyons method..so next day i texted:

Read this and try not to think of me. and added a smiley :)

next day she emails me this:

one more sms like that and i will block you. ur strategy will work against 16 year old girls but not with a woman like me..i am not into this i started talking to you bcoz of ur nice facade thing..u dont know how to behave with a woman..

I was really shocked..but what the fuck? is it a cultural thing?..she is a student from bulgaria..do they need to be handled much different from american women..anyone with any experiences with bulgarian or slavic women?what did i do wrong?

It's not that she's slavic, it's that she's WAY smarter than that (remember she's a ph.d candidate.) These social engineering methods are useless on a quality woman like this. I closed this hot ph.d chick by talking to her about the Palestinian conflict for an hour at a party (I actually was interested in the topic). The next party I saw her at I was immediately physical/sexual as though we had already done it. She went right along. Learn to go direct with this girl or not at all.
Author:  Nyseto [ Thu Aug 12, 2010 3:42 pm ]
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cuteguy, give her a really strong neg that will make her want to redeem herself for you.

The worst thing you can do now is say, "Sorry, blah blah blah."

Remember, she is one woman, so whatever happens, keep moving on. BUT it's important that you at least leave her with something to remember, it's kind of your last shot that has a chance to it as opposed to saying "sorry" which will have zero chances.

Something like, "Were you a dork at school or something, because at first I thought you've gotten laid before." (implies a TON of things about her. that she does not go out to often, that she does not get many men, etc.) And it's also true because I mean...she has a PhD...they don't get laid very often.

That is the neg...and now for the last part...showing indifference to when she said she'll block you!

This is where you would say something like, "Oh well, I'm blocked, what a shame, that nice girl facade must fool many."

European girls are very tough. I'm from Romania myself and been to Bulgaria as well. Although I am almost 18, European girls are actually trapped in what the parents have taught them (the mentality). They are taught by their parents to be very sincere, and to look for a nice guy, etc. etc. and to not take any crap. David DeAngelo described attraction at a very biological level. What you need to do, is push those buttons, but what gets in the way is the person's mentality. So in a way, you do spark attraction at the subconscious level but they are so brainwashed into thinking, "No, my parents said that guys like these are assholes." Europeans just educate their kids in a very traditional manner and tradition kills the work of nature (how attraction works naturally).

Anyways, it is best to tell her that neg and show the indifference in person. The majority of communication as you know it, is body language. An email or a text will have a much higher chance in her really blocking you. But when we meet people in person, we have this obligation to respond because it's at the very basic level of communication: person to person (eye to eye).

So when you meet her in person and tell her that neg and showing the indifference by saying you're blocked, it shows a few things. BUT you must do it with the right delivery!

The neg will work even better if you say it with a serious look; try to match HER serious look when you say it and better yet, say it to her face looking into her eyes with your hand reached out against the side of her shoulder. It's a mixed signal because you have this very serious look on your face, and you are also using kino. It kind of comforts her in a way that you are actually a mature man because at first she probably thought you were immature by "treating her as if she's 16."

And then by telling her that you are blocked shows a lot more indifference because you say it in person and in a jokingly sort of way as if she has her laptop with her right now to block you. Bringing out the things she told you via an email or text in person, has a much more powerful effect.

After you say the neg, back up even more from her, and then tell her the thing that shows indifference ""Oh well, I'm blocked, what a shame, that nice girl facade must fool many." and say that with a SMILE on your face, tilting your head to one side, and keeping your arms spread out as if you were going to hug a very obese person. And then turn your back slowly and walk off...slowly. It's all about making it look like you are very chill about it as opposed to trotting off as if you're pissed about it.

After that, don't email her, don't text her, nothing. Just let her be whether she actually blocks you or not and move on to other girls . Chances are that she'll be just a girl in the process of mentally boiling over you and you have that chance of her coming out spontaneously to say something to you. Chances are she won't block you anyways because you told her that in person and you made it seem as a joke with the smile and everything else.
Author:  fox_theone [ Thu Aug 12, 2010 3:47 pm ]
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That's some serious bitch shield. The best way to break her bitch shield is to say to her exactly what she's thinking.
It works because you demonstrate you have authority over her reality. You know what she's thinking and why. That breaks her autopilot responses like these and grabs her attention. It's a risk and it's up to you man.
Also I found our techniques work better on intelligent women. You've just gotta use the intelligent techniques :D
Author:  Nyseto [ Thu Aug 12, 2010 3:53 pm ]
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OH AND!!! She is full of bullshit. Let me tell you why, she told you that, "I only talked to you because of your nice facade."

I mean...girl, if you already knew I had a facade going on, why would you talk to me in the first place??? She not only has a bitch shield, she has a hypocritical bitch shield too...and that's an ADVANTAGE for you.

She is giving you a major shit test but like I said, refer back to my previous post and tell her that neg I told you as well as telling her the other part to show indifference.

Do all of that in person, with the proper delivery. Too many people rely on the the MATERIAL. The material is what she'll go over inside of her mind after you two finished talking. The DELIVERY is what makes the material sink in...

The things I wrote in bold uses her own weapons against her. In the end, you are accusing HER of having a facade, but you see, you won't tell her she has a nice facade like she told you. You're telling her she had a nice girl facade...implying that she's not nice, ill-mannered, etc.

When you tell a European woman she's ill-mannered, it kills. Do you have any idea how much European parents stress manners? Like I said before, I'm almost 18 and from Romania...I used to get beat as a kid for not saying certain things formally and so on. Americans are ehhh you know....very laid back, much less uptight and easier to work with. Traditional Europeans look down on them for that...and I should know...I hear my parents saying things all the time (but why did they decide to come to America? :wink:)

And let me tell you another thing. Let's say she invites you over to introduce you to her parents. I hands down guarantee Europeans do this parent meet date sort of thing. You all sit down around a table in a conservative fashion and they will judge the hell out of you, especially the dad. And when you leave, they scurry around as fast as lightning and start to discuss the things about you behind your back just like that. I mean...a girl coming from a European family with a PhD?!

Plus, it doesn't matter how smart a girl is, all girls are wired the same biologically and what I mean by this is that there is not one girl out there who is born as a cold fish and can never take a joke or show her playful side. So who cares if it won't work out. The best thing is that you at least give her a piece of mind for her to ponder over. As for being blocked or whatever...you're blocked today. But what about tomorrow? Though you shouldn't rely on this 100% and get oneitis, it's good to know.

She's the type with a weak exterior defense. Meaning that she does not fear to speak her mind. Which is very good for you because it's as if she's throwing more gas on the fire for you to burn with. Some other girls have a strong exterior defense and completely tune you out and are very diplomatic in the way they express themselves meaning that, they won't tell you what they really feel. This one however, tells you what she feels...so you know exactly what to work with.
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