Ok, so before I start... I am new to the "pickup artist community" or "seduction community" or whatever you may call it. However, I had been a "kind-of" natural guy, knowing if I show too much attention too soon or give a girl a gift she hadn't "earned" [even sex].
However, I find the community VERY interesting and could see how the techniques of several "seduction gurus" would work in field!
The only problem I could see myself having....
Does anyone ever find that they have tons of pickups, but after the girl "gets to know them" that they all seem to leave?
I just think that doing magic tricks, or acting almost as a different person, which the pickup artist is obviously an artist, and I have heard alot of it is acting?
So my question is just that - - do you ever feel "fake" or have people realize you're not what your first impression seemed?
The worries of this worry me far more than "pickup anxiety" but however, i am interested in becoming a pickup artist.
I just don't wanna go home and think "Man, if I'd actually been myself I'd never have pulled those 10s and 11s at the bar/club! Once they get to know me they'll probably be gone..."
I mean, not that I should really let it effect me I guess? Because people are people and if the whole "one soul mate" thing is true, no matter how many women you pickup and "take home" - - if there really IS "one true soul mate" for everyone, than I guess it'd be better to sleep with.. I mean "pickup"
as many women as possible along the way of finding her....Anyone down for some response to this? I'm interested in hearing it.