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Author:  nmuntz [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 11:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Playing game on an old friend you were attracted to

My last year of highschool I was very attracted to this girl but obviously I had no skills on picking up women, was very shy and I failed miserably at trying to pick her up and ended up on friend zone.

5 years have passed were we didn't really speak to each other and also didn't see each other at all.
Until last week, where we chatted online, got her number and said I would ask her out sometime. A few days later I called her, we said we would meet certain day and that day she said she was feeling sick so i made different plans. She called me later that night to invite me over to her apartment to have a drink with her friends, which i turned down since i had already made plans. Week after that I called her again, asked her out and she agreed to go out the next day.

Next day she called me and said we should go out for some coffee since she wasnt really feeling like going out to a pub and drinking. I didn't really like the idea of going out for some coffee so I ended up telling her I would pick her up at her place and we'll decide later what to do.

Now, what happened here is I believe she was under the impression I was the same nerd that didn't have too much to talk to her about so she assumed going out for coffee for an hour or so would be more than enough...
As soon as she got into my car and saw that I was a new man that could lead a very interesting conversation, she was like "forget the coffee, take me wherever you want".

So i took her to a nice pub that i know with a calmed relaxed SPAM and she loved the place and complimented me on picking up such a nice place. For drinks I didnt even asked her what she wanted and got a bottle of wine which she said she loved. I know I made a great impression on her and that she had an awesome time, she gave me several IOI's and at the end of the night she asked me what i thought of her now and if i thougt she has changed since we last saw each other 5 years ago which I responded to with a "you look exactly like you did 5 years ago" .

The reason I did this is because 5 years ago i was showing to her way too much interest to her and that ended up ruining my game, and my game plan with her is to act disinterested and make her feel attracted to me.

The next day she texted me to thank me for such an awesome moment she had and told me she would love to hang out again.

Now my questions are...

- what should I do next? what would be a good second date location? Would taking her out in the middle of the week to the casino be a good idea?
- Should i try to kino escalate on this second date?
- Should i text her something this week? its been 4 days since we went out.

Thanks a lot in advance for your help.

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