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| Author: | danc20 [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 4:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | shy girl what to do? |
hey guys sorry for my bad english ok look at my situation theres this girl(HB9) i havent seen for 1 year today i saw her at the pool so i started talking to her after 5mintues she and her friend had to go somewhere else i know she wants me'because her friends are always telling me that she wants me, but she's really shy and i mean reallyyyyyy shy her confidence is down and i have to make her less shy she left because she didnt know what to say....what should i do,bulilt comfort? how do i get her confidence up??? thanks guys btw we're about 15 |
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| Author: | Saint Pixie [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 5:07 pm ] |
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Hey man, When a girl is shy, or conservative in her attitude, dress, and company, she is what one calls a "Prude". Girls at our age all fall under two categories, "Prude" and "Purd". Now they are not usually one EXTREME or the other, they are usually a mix of the two; however, it seems as though your girl is pretty extreme Prude. Here is the very short version of how to deal with Prudes: Be light on Negs, heavy on stories, banter, future projections, cold readings about her (such as the Cube), tongue in cheek romanticism, and NLP. The main goal is comfort, not attraction. Don't be afraid to tell a sensitive story that shows you're human and you have problems sometimes too. Also, show that you're looking for more than just a hot girl (Mystery's three important things gambit/neg is good for this). Keep in mind - kino escalation will be slower than it would be with a Purd, but that does NOT mean "don't kino." If you do not kino, you may end up in the friend zone. A few ways to avoid the friend zone are - show that you are a sexual being (do this through kino, and stories), let her catch you staring at her lips on day 5 (estimate), etc. Hope this helps! Happy Gaming -Saint Pixie |
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| Author: | mechleader [ Tue Aug 03, 2010 4:29 am ] |
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I would build her value up, she likes you, but feels she's not good enough. Compliment, and generally imply that she's good enough for you. In short, build her value and build comfort. Once her value is equal to yours, continue as normal. |
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| Author: | TheGoldenBoyBenG [ Tue Aug 03, 2010 5:59 am ] |
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I'm 15 as well and from what i just read... Honestly, I think that she is not attracted to you, and that her friends are fucking with you. What proof do you have that this girl likes you? Girls are different around different people, i am not trying to be cyncial, but i recomend you move on, and not try to change a girl that already MAY not like you. Good luck -The Warrior |
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| Author: | mechleader [ Tue Aug 03, 2010 7:10 am ] |
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I still advise boosting her value up, always leave a girl better than where you found her. |
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