PUA Forum :: Should I or shouldn't I?

call her but without seeming needy if she blows you off then forget about her and move on!

if you gave a set parameter of a date or a time then she breaks that cut her off as she aint worth it. if she gives an excuse call her on it basically ask her if thats the reason or dont she want to see you again basically it puts her on the spot

it is rude that she has ignored your last text, however it is possible she hasnt got any phone credit, did she go funny at all like she wasnt having any fun or got bored or anything? if her mood changed then that may be a sign that she was going to blow you off

you dont sit and mope in the house you find another girl a better one!

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call her but without seeming needy if she blows you off then forget about her and move on!

What I was thinking, but since I got into PUA I've developed a kind of stubborn side of me, I feel like not even calling, she knows the deal and I told her to contact me, but I guess it wont hurt.

Cheers!

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call her but without seeming needy if she blows you off then forget about her and move on!

I have this too and I think its just manning up and trying to avoid shit. She sounds like shes playing hard to get and probably testing you in a really mature way? As in she wants to see if you are in any way needy or attached to her. Being a PUA of course you will go out and meet other girls and I probably bet she will be back in touch when you have almost forgotten about her. Let us know if she ever does !

Author:	Chelios [ Thu Jul 29, 2010 9:41 pm ]
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Funny as I'm usually giving my advice on here, never been in this situation before: Basically, met this girl last week in a club, both sober, got on well, used some techniques from my natural game and worked a charm. I'm 21 almost 22, she's 29. said she has no problems and hope's I don't. . Got her number good conversation and K closing her loadsa times, and she text me after saying when will I take her out to play, so I suggested friday, she was looking forward to it, we spoke on phone and exchanged a few txts. Haven't heard from her since tuesday (I like to keep txt etc minimal till I get to know her more in person and not be needy) I did text her, no reply, thinking as we're meant to go out tomorrow, shall I call her see if we're on? or just leave it and see if I hear from her? In my last text I said to call me when she's free so we can arrange tomorrow evening (meet etc). She seemed nice, the kinda chick I'd like to hang with. Cheers guys!

Author:	cerebralassassin [ Thu Jul 29, 2010 10:03 pm ]
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call her but without seeming needy if she blows you off then forget about her and move on!

Author:	Chelios [ Thu Jul 29, 2010 10:06 pm ]
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Quote: call her but without seeming needy if she blows you off then forget about her and move on! What I was thinking, but since I got into PUA I've developed a kind of stubborn side of me, I feel like not even calling, she knows the deal and I told her to contact me, but I guess it wont hurt. Cheers!

Author:	cerebralassassin [ Thu Jul 29, 2010 10:19 pm ]
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if you gave a set parameter of a date or a time then she breaks that cut her off as she aint worth it. if she gives an excuse call her on it basically ask her if thats the reason or dont she want to see you again basically it puts her on the spot

Author:	Chelios [ Thu Jul 29, 2010 10:21 pm ]
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Quote: if you gave a set parameter of a date or a time then she breaks that cut her off as she aint worth it. if she gives an excuse call her on it basically ask her if thats the reason or dont she want to see you again basically it puts her on the spot Yep, in truth I do want to see her because we got on well etc and she was cute, but loadsa women out there! I'll call her tomorrow, around lunch time, if she don't answer or give a certainty for the evening (we haven't discussed where we were going yet) , I'm not going to call or make contact again, fuck it.

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Author:	Chelios [ Thu Jul 29, 2010 10:30 pm ]
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Quote: it is rude that she has ignored your last text, however it is possible she hasnt got any phone credit, did she go funny at all like she wasnt having any fun or got bored or anything? if her mood changed then that may be a sign that she was going to blow you off Nah all was well, she gets busy, so do I, she could just be playing a bit hard, I like it we're not in constant contact but assuming we're linking up tomorrow most normal people would have attempted to sort it. If I get no response, fuck it, move on to next in line!

Author:	Chelios [ Thu Jul 29, 2010 10:37 pm ]
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Quote: you dont sit and mope in the house you find another girl a better one! Hell yeh, and if I don't see her tomorrow, that's what I'll be doing this weekend

Author:	Bormad [ Fri Jul 30, 2010 12:04 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: call her but without seeming needy if she blows you off then forget about her and move on! What I was thinking, but since I got into PUA I've developed a kind of stubborn side of me, I feel like not even calling, she knows the deal and I told her to contact me, but I guess it wont hurt. Cheers! I have this too and I think its just manning up and trying to avoid shit. She sounds like shes playing hard to get and probably testing you in a really mature way? As in she wants to see if you are in any way needy or attached to her. Being a PUA of course you will go out and meet other girls and I probably bet she will be back in touch when you have almost forgotten about her. Let us know if she ever does !

Author:	Chelios [ Fri Jul 30, 2010 12:16 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: call her but without seeming needy if she blows you off then forget about her and move on! What I was thinking, but since I got into PUA I've developed a kind of stubborn side of me, I feel like not even calling, she knows the deal and I told her to contact me, but I guess it wont hurt. Cheers! I have this too and I think its just manning up and trying to avoid shit. She sounds like shes playing hard to get and probably testing you in a really mature way? As in she wants to see if you are in any way needy or attached to her. Being a PUA of course you will go out and meet other girls and I probably bet she will be back in touch when you have almost forgotten about her. Let us know if she ever does ! Was thinking along the same lines. I called her, bit the bullet and put my stubbornness to the side, no answer, so left it. I'm making other plans for tonight and the weekend, if she calls sometimes and wants to go out, I'll go and bang if I have time, if not, her loss!

Author:	cerebralassassin [ Fri Jul 30, 2010 12:39 pm ]
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think of it this way her loss is your gain! now you have an extra evening to go out and have fun! now she be sitting at home or moping into her drink that she doesnt have a date tonight and you will be going out and # and k closing

Author:	~Finesse [ Fri Jul 30, 2010 2:55 pm ]
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There's only one thing you need to take from this experience... Girls are WEIRD!!!

Author:	Chelios [ Fri Jul 30, 2010 6:15 pm ]
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Crazy and Finesse I agree with both, they are weird, not that I didn't know already just adds to it haha.

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