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| Author: | kobeizgod [ Fri Jul 23, 2010 1:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | So I don't know what to do. |
So last night i had a couple people over. After people started to leave and the night when on it was me, my buddy, and two girls. Ive known this girl for 4 years but have only talked to her on occasion.. so going from never really talking to tryin to get in her pants was a challenge . So things are pretty good with my bp parter she's shooting in front of me and we start gettin closer. i took her outside bc buddy was making a scene in the house and we start to make out and afterwards have a pretty good conversation. It wasn't that great but not teribble ( we were both trashed). They end up leaving at 4 am. but i made sure to get her number . We had a pretty good connection and went she came by to get her jacket she left today, she just grabbed it with her friend and left... we had been texting about last night during the day so i thought maybe she wasn't coming back just for her jacket. wtf should i do leave it alone... text her? |
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| Author: | Visionxxxxxx [ Fri Jul 23, 2010 9:26 am ] |
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how did you leave things with her? she picked up her jacket, it was a hi and bye situation and then? you texted? give us dialog of the text if you think it matters...give more info on how you left it with her... |
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| Author: | kobeizgod [ Fri Jul 23, 2010 2:33 pm ] |
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ok update. Before she left, i asked what they were doing tonight and they said they had no plans. I text her at 945 asking what she is doing. watching tv. I asked if she would like to come over in a bit. she replies with a " maybe idk i might be hagning with andrew but idk yet, ill text ya". Didn't receive a text... |
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| Author: | Visionxxxxxx [ Fri Jul 23, 2010 2:47 pm ] |
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what ever you do, do not contact her again...you have conveyed enough interest for HER to now initiate the next convo. firstly, you asked her to come over....(clear indication youre interested) secondly, she flaked on replying to you (this puts her even further in the dog box) do not give it any more attention unless she contacts you. (you see if you contact her and DO manage to see her, you will still look like the spineless chump that accepted her 'unacceptable' behavior but is still willing to see her...like a love sick puppy) |
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| Author: | kobeizgod [ Fri Jul 23, 2010 3:00 pm ] |
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ok so just wait it out, and if she doesn't contact me back i know it's beat....? lol ofcourse today would be the start of the weekend... |
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| Author: | Visionxxxxxx [ Fri Jul 23, 2010 3:33 pm ] |
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if you insist in re-initiating then at least leave it a few days and start on a fresh note...go meet other women this weekend, no need to have this one on your mind 24/7!  If you re-engage now youre going to come across as needy. (if you want you can take the risk but i wouldnt....she would have got back to you if she wanted to see you. and even if she forgot to reply...she would have realized it the following day and contacted you then). Let us know what comes of it.
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| Author: | Zephyrine [ Fri Jul 23, 2010 9:39 pm ] |
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Well it seems she is unsure of her interest, because she flaked, but at the same time, felt the need to drop another guy's name (trying to make you jealous). Let her initiate the next conversation. |
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| Author: | kobeizgod [ Sat Jul 24, 2010 9:19 pm ] |
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I know right? shes been bombin my Fb feed with junk too but at the same time it could just be a chick gettin her Fb on... No clue where this shit is going. |
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| Author: | stevenknowswhy [ Sat Jul 24, 2010 10:11 pm ] |
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I agree with Visionxxxxx, don't spend too much time or energy on one girl. You should have at least five girls that you're working on at any one time then if one flakes you will have the balls to next her off your list bc you're busy. Only AFCs obsess, worry and let girls who might or might not give a f*** about them live rent free in their head. As an Alpha male, you only like them as much as they like you. Be strong, be confident, be who you are. And NEVER reward bad behavior. If she flakes, scold her or cut her off. But don't go back unless you want more of the same. You are the Alpha male and you're the star of your show. Don't give someone else the power. |
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