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| Author: | MisterG [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 1:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What is going on????!!! |
Ok so bottom line is Im a classic AFC right, but I have been doing some serious research lately and practicing changing that and becoming an alpha. I must admit I am seeing some progress and I am happy with the direction I am moving in but I still have a problem with two girls in my life. This is the story about one of them. Ill keep it as brief as I possibly can. But id really appreciate some of your opinions and advice! Here goes: The background… Part time I volunteer for a very big children’s charity (I am actually a board member now), Every year volunteers come from other countries to work with us. Some stay for as long as a year. Last year two girls came out and I ended up befriending them. They developed into two of my closest friends and we went through many good and bad times together while they were here. I obviously stay in contact with them via SPAM and facebook etc. after they went home. I always had a crush on one of them but she had a boyfriend while she was here (they have since broken up and she is now single) Present Day… Currently they are back in my country for a visit and since she got here, she and I have been more and more physical with eachother. Allways hugging and poking/tickling eachother etc. If she sleeps at my place and were in the same bed she will hold on to me all night, spooning, lying with her arms around me, head on my chest etc. even goes as far as her putting her hand up my shirt and pulling at me or rubbing me. (Now I know what you guys are thinking, this girl wants it, right?) Well ive tried kissing her on the cheek/forehead (with the obvious intention of moving in further for a k close) and her reaction wasn’t so great, she said she never agreed to kissing and cuddling or something?! Also I asked her if the cuddling was intimate for her and she said No and that she just likes to cuddle a lot and also I asked her if she was attracted to me and she also said No (friendzone!) So what the hell is going on?!?! Im really confused about it! You’ll all be glad to know I am playing it cool and staying in control with her but on the inside I am going crazy! Any advice will be welcome gents. Should I run for the hills? I mean we live on opposite sides of the planet, as much as id like to date her it probably wont work but she is here for another month so what do you think I should do? Thanks in advance for your help! G |
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| Author: | Jav [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 2:25 pm ] |
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What are YOUR rules? i.e. I don't cuddle unless we had sex. If she wants a platonic cuddle she should find someone else, keep your hands off me or sleep on the couch, or let's sex it up and cuddle afterwards. ' My point is you've been playing into her hands long enough, you're out of control. what I am NOT saying is that you should be a control freak and only play by your rules. Balance is a big thing. But yeah, you hit friendzone with this girl, which isn't the end. Keep escalating, tease her alot, to the point she jumps you. (awwww, we're friends right? ~playfully~) AND START TALKING TO OTHER GIRLS. Give her some leverage, A guy with options is more attractive than some dude that doesn't |
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| Author: | MisterG [ Thu Jul 22, 2010 8:25 am ] |
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Thanks Vaj, Appreciate the reply and advice. You are right, I am not in control this way! Time to start living by my rules! |
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