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Author:  openMinded [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 12:17 am ]
Post subject:  What can a guy possibly do to make a girl lose interest
I've never really thought about this, but what can a guy do to possibly make a girl lose interest in them after the girl has established interest for you?

Can you guys list all the possible cases.

Thanks in advance !
Author:  alshind [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 12:25 am ]
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lol what cant a guy do?

anywhere from calling too much to showing more interest then she shows. A girls attraction can be lost so much easier then it can be gained.
Author:  openMinded [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 12:30 am ]
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lol what cant a guy do?

anywhere from calling too much to showing more interest then she shows. A girls attraction can be lost so much easier then it can be gained.
What if it is at the point where the female has considered you to be "the one" ? What do you do now?
Author:  Mrmonk [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 12:36 am ]
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i think this is the first time someone has posted on these forums for advice on how to lose a chick lol imo being needy and clingy kill attraction quicker than anything else
Author:  openMinded [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 12:41 am ]
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i think this is the first time someone has posted on these forums for advice on how to lose a chick lol imo being needy and clingy kill attraction quicker than anything else
lol, yes, but does this still work if the girl has already considered you as a potential husband? because like it has already grown to the point where she ll accept you for all your flaws.
Author:  Kalel [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 12:52 am ]
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Basically, look at all the advice given on this site on how to attract women... then do the opposite.
Author:  openMinded [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 12:59 am ]
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Basically, look at all the advice given on this site on how to attract women... then do the opposite.
I don't think that works...but thanks for the suggestion though.
Author:  ~Finesse [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 1:28 am ]
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THE 3 ULTIMATE THINGS THAT DESTROY HER INTEREST


-Be INSECURE

-Be NEGATIVE

-Be DEPRESSIVE
Author:  openMinded [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 1:33 am ]
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THE 3 ULTIMATE THINGS THAT DESTROY HER INTEREST


-Be INSECURE

-Be NEGATIVE

-Be DEPRESSIVE
Thx, but I don't think this will work either once the girl is overly attached to you.
Maybe I didn't really stated how attached, and I should have.

Once a girl have considered you to be sole mate, potential husband, the one or w/e labels she has now given you. It is very hard to lose that title.

It's simply because it is past the point of "seeing past your flaws"

Be insecure and she will wonder why and help you.
Be negative, and she will feel sad and try to think of ways to make you happy .
Be depressive and she will do the repeat above.

Infact, the above will create even more attraction at this stage of the game.

I think so.
Author:  alshind [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 3:04 am ]
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i think this is the first time someone has posted on these forums for advice on how to lose a chick lol imo being needy and clingy kill attraction quicker than anything else
lol, yes, but does this still work if the girl has already considered you as a potential husband? because like it has already grown to the point where she ll accept you for all your flaws.
when you call too much or get too clingy these arnt flaws these are insecurities, when you find someone that wants to marry you these insecurities hopefully go away. If they ever come back and they are strong enough thats the end of your relationship. No one wants to be with a bitch.
Author:  openMinded [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 3:06 am ]
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i think this is the first time someone has posted on these forums for advice on how to lose a chick lol imo being needy and clingy kill attraction quicker than anything else
lol, yes, but does this still work if the girl has already considered you as a potential husband? because like it has already grown to the point where she ll accept you for all your flaws.
when you call too much or get too clingy these arnt flaws these are insecurities, when you find someone that wants to marry you these insecurities hopefully go away. If they ever come back and they are strong enough thats the end of your relationship. No one wants to be with a bitch.
Oh good point. I didn't think about the strength part. Thanks ! ! !
Author:  Kalel [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 4:28 am ]
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Basically, look at all the advice given on this site on how to attract women... then do the opposite.
I don't think that works...but thanks for the suggestion though.
Sure it would. Look at what makes an Afc an Afc, then start being like that. Turn off all your attractive qualities and enjoyable personality, and start acting boring, quiet, introverted, and insecure.

There are plenty of posts on things not to do to make a girl lose interest. Why not just read them and do what they tell you not to do?
Author:  openMinded [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 9:32 am ]
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Basically, look at all the advice given on this site on how to attract women... then do the opposite.
I don't think that works...but thanks for the suggestion though.
Sure it would. Look at what makes an Afc an Afc, then start being like that. Turn off all your attractive qualities and enjoyable personality, and start acting boring, quiet, introverted, and insecure.

There are plenty of posts on things not to do to make a girl lose interest. Why not just read them and do what they tell you not to do?
Yaaa, I realized this after reading Alshind's reply. I forgot to take the strength factor into account. So basically, all we have to do is "increase the strength of our insecurity, introversy, boring, quiet, arrogance" or w/e attraction-repulsive trait above her "current attraction" for you. Basically, making the cons outweigh the pros.

Thanks for the help : )
Author:  StreetLight [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 9:54 am ]
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How about just break up with her?
Author:  fedo [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 10:17 am ]
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listen Buddy ,, Dont waste ur time on trying to make her lose interest on u ,,
some just wont ,, when i Girl loves you . she wont even see anything u do that can make her lose interest ,
i have had a GF for a long time that i wanted to break up with but without breaking her heart , without just breaking up with her , for sure i used to cheat on her meanwhile . But still having her in my head ruins my game a lot ,,
So only one thing can make her lose interest in u ,, ditching her
" i dont things would work between us , i just dont feel it , Sorry baby , And a Break up F for sure , "
Good luck
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