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Ok so i noticed that if you and a girl dont see eye to eye and you bring up a problem in the relationship or you made a mistake somewhere that turned her off. Then after that you feel this gap, an awkwardness between the 2 of you. I read a lot of post where guys would ask how they would go about re-initiating contact with a particular girl after things has gone sour. Not wanting to come off as needy the most common suggestion would be to not call/text her but to let her re-initiate the contact. Often time if she is still interested in a couple of week she'll contact you. If not then everyone moves on with their lives. But are there cases where the girl is still interested but is being stubborn, too afraid, not wanting to come off as clingy is waiting on the guy the contact her.

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Author:	lefthook [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 9:48 pm ]
Post subject:	just wondering
Ok so i noticed that if you and a girl dont see eye to eye and you bring up a problem in the relationship or you made a mistake somewhere that turned her off. Then after that you feel this gap, an awkwardness between the 2 of you. I read a lot of post where guys would ask how they would go about re-initiating contact with a particular girl after things has gone sour. Not wanting to come off as needy the most common suggestion would be to not call/text her but to let her re-initiate the contact. Often time if she is still interested in a couple of week she'll contact you. If not then everyone moves on with their lives. But are there cases where the girl is still interested but is being stubborn, too afraid, not wanting to come off as clingy is waiting on the guy the contact her. post you're opinions

Author:	JOHNNYBOY29 [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 9:57 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: just wondering
Quote: Ok so i noticed that if you and a girl dont see eye to eye and you bring up a problem in the relationship or you made a mistake somewhere that turned her off. Then after that you feel this gap, an awkwardness between the 2 of you. I read a lot of post where guys would ask how they would go about re-initiating contact with a particular girl after things has gone sour. Not wanting to come off as needy the most common suggestion would be to not call/text her but to let her re-initiate the contact. Often time if she is still interested in a couple of week she'll contact you. If not then everyone moves on with their lives. But are there cases where the girl is still interested but is being stubborn, too afraid, not wanting to come off as clingy is waiting on the guy the contact her. post you're opinions Yes I have been in that situation before. Im one of those people that my friends and exes etc know that I need my space and calm down and when the time is right I will always reinitiate contatct. If I know something is wrong I will not hesitate to call/text the person/s in question. I am too conscious that people sometimes dont know if im bothered by something (as I can hide things quite well) so I will always initiate the contact. So in answer to your question, the girl will know i will contact her no matter what but in due course when im ready not when theyre ready. You the proactive or the reactive kind? thats what it kinda boils down to.

Author:	Kalel [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 1:12 am ]
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I usually wait till I cool off, then re-initiate contact, pretending like nothing ever happened. It throws the girls off at first, because they obviously feel like I'm avoiding the issue, but after a while they just go with it. It's really weird how well this works.

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