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| Author: | Wawawewa [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | To much Value? Or are they testing me? |
OK so im guessing this question has been asked, and im sorry if im repeating it. But i must know! DHV's they are important right? I use them where necessary, or where i can. Not only do i talk it up. But I think i have a good circle of mates, alot of female friends ect. Social life is good. I have been called ignorant, Once a girl went as far as asking why is my ego so big? (im not sure if she was testing me, or if she has a point) I don't think i talk myself u that much... Anyways bottom line. How do you give yourself value without going overboard. PS in saying all this, it doesn't happen all the time. But it made me think, maybe girls think i am,but don't say anything. What are your thoughts guys? |
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| Author: | mR.e [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 3:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | hm |
hey mate, i found myself in the same type of problem for a short amount of time some people that i was friends with told me that i was ignorant too and that my ego was big, i didnt believe it until i noticed it really was making girls avoid me, mostly the girls that knew me. when i caught this i realized i needed to change my ways a little bit, and i found that the best way to do this was to DHV like you normally do and then after you do ask them a question. or if you DHV and they ask you a question answer then say "yea does that happen to you too or is that just something ect ect" wutever it may be. if you tell a story ask them if something similar has happened to them, or just something like that. make them talk too, connect them to your story, not just tell them something to look good mR.e |
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| Author: | ~Finesse [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 3:54 pm ] |
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Why you bothering about value? 1. Value means different things to different people 2. You'll always lost to celebs/nightclub owners/whoever else. It's pointless playing on that level. |
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| Author: | Kalel [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 5:34 am ] |
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DHVs are good, when they are done subtlety and naturally. Just outright telling people that you are great, is actually going to be perceived as pathetic because it is driven by insecurity rather than confidence. When we talk about value, we are not just talking about money or fame, we are also talking about primal perceptions of value. Like strength, confidence, leadership, fearlessness; things that would have helped you survive and replicate 1,000 years ago. DHVs are usually actions rather than words. Like leading a group or a conversation, or doing something ballsy and fearless, taking initiative, pretty much just being in control of yourself and your surroundings confidently. Some DHVs are verbal, but have less to do with the content of speaking then the act itself. Like taking control of a conversation to tell a personal story, the impressive part isn't the story, the impressive part is that you can make an entire group listen and enjoy it. You can display value in how you stand, in how you stare at a woman, in how you touch and lead a woman, in how you talk and interact with a woman, in how you interact in a group, in how you walk through a crowd, in how you dress, in who your friends are, in how people respond to your, in how you react in situations. Value is displayed subtly in almost everything we do. So basically, what I mean to say, is that you shouldn't tell people how awesome you are, you should just be you and let them see it for themselves. |
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