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Author:  cerebralassassin [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 11:42 am ]
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i got home today and i got the strangest msg on facebook! it was from a girl that i broke up with 7-8 years ago the girl i lost my virginity to and quite frankly screwed my love life up with women for a long time. she cheated on me WITH A CLOSE FRIEND!, WAS PREGNANT (had an abortion), and went round and told my friends about any problems in the bedroom...
then i get this:

i just want to say i am sorry for the past i was a bitch and fucked up in the head. You did not deserve any of it i was wrong. Any way hope your having a good life and all the best for the future. i know you cant stand me not that i blame you. i said sorry that all i wanted to say.
All the best

I now know shes married so she hardly feeling guilty im guessing shse pregnant
Author:  Little Panda [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 1:19 pm ]
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There's no point in replying. She's in your past - drop it.
Author:  cerebralassassin [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 1:42 pm ]
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i really have no feelings towards her either way and couldnt really care less about her i just find it funny how someone out of the blue will just contact you even after all the shit they put you through maybe she watched too much how i met your mother
Author:  Chelios [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:09 pm ]
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Ignore it, sounds like something has triggered her off, as you stated crazy, maybe pregnancy, personally I'd just ignore her because she'll wonder even more, or I'd be a complete dick and say, "It was the best thing ever, made me realise so much" and end it there.
Author:  cerebralassassin [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:17 pm ]
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i just sent her a message saying 'thanks bye' she can apologize but i aint ever gonna be friends with her just thinking about her makes me well nauseous
Author:  Chelios [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:20 pm ]
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i just sent her a message saying 'thanks bye' she can apologize but i aint ever gonna be friends with her just thinking about her makes me well nauseous
Good. I wouldn't even be in contact with someone like that, her guilt to live with, you go and enjoy life.
Author:  cerebralassassin [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:21 pm ]
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well if it werent for her i wouldnt have found pua dom so i guess i can thank her for that
Author:  Chelios [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:25 pm ]
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well if it werent for her i wouldnt have found pua dom so i guess i can thank her for that
That's what I meany by, she's done you a favour. Millions of women out there around you, she just helped open your eyes to the big wide world.
Author:  ~Finesse [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 3:59 pm ]
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Sounds like she feels guilty and wants to take the weight off her (slutty) chest.



doesn't sound like she's being sorry for you. Sounds like she's being sorry for herself.



selfish. Dont worry, she's scum.
Author:  cerebralassassin [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 4:00 pm ]
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it could be worse i could have a 7 year old and stuck in a pointless relationship with a skank
Author:  cerebralassassin [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 7:10 pm ]
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doesn't sound like she's being sorry for you. Sounds like she's being sorry for herself.






basically shes probably feeling guilty and trying to make herself feel better
Author:  jurupa [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 7:24 pm ]
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I know this is a bit late, but there was a chance that this girl has changed her ways. Reality may have set in and smacked her in the face and gave her one hell of a wake up call or something. What she did was certainly shitty. But it was also 7/8 years ago. A lot could have happen to her in that time. I know I sound like I am giving her a pity vote, which I may be. But I don't see much cause to still bash the girl for something that happen years ago. As they say the past is the past. You can either dwell in it or move on. I am not saying one should forget what happen in the past, but more one doesn't need to keep on living in the past as if its current day.
Author:  Phazzle [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 7:27 pm ]
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Yeah, +1 to all of the above. You handled it well. Keep her in your rearview. In fact...tear the fucking mirror off and keep driving.
Author:  cerebralassassin [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 8:06 pm ]
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i agree i was perfectly fine i'd put it behind me then she contacts me, to be honest i really wish she hadnt because now im thinking about it again, and it will always be a sensitive subject for me and its probably the only thing that gets me down
Author:  zappo [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 10:59 pm ]
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Ive been on the otherside of this stick :\

I think i screwd a girl up after a bad breakup
I did appologise a thousand times
We did seem to be on mutal terms for a while
Yet i still felt bad for what I did , so i messaged her apologizing proppally making excuses up for what i did and how immature i was ( i think its because i have a need for people to like me, but whatever )

But the thing is , is I didnt want to escalate it any further I just wanted to show this girl im actually not a bad guy and she was thankfull for my message her exact words " Ive been waiting for this for 3 years , Im glad youve said this and maybe the next time we meet I wont be so bitter " And she wasnt !

The point of that is we all make mistakes and shes probably trying to get the message across that she isnt a bad person shes only human !

From the guy thats been on the other end of this , its in the past , give her a break it will make you feel better ;)
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