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| Author: | En1gm4 [ Mon Jul 19, 2010 3:06 pm ] |
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Hey guys... Most of my friends that are girls i have all first...Fancied. As in, the only reason i actually went and talked to them is because i found them attractive. From then on i either fell into the friends zone or just missed oppertunities and thats that. My question is... How do you game a friend? From Approach to close...Is it possible? If so...How would you go about it? I'm not just talking about friends you see every week. But friends you catch up with on occassions. I know things can get messy and that friend feature can end if it does...But, still...Curious. Divulge... |
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| Author: | Nova86 [ Mon Jul 19, 2010 3:34 pm ] |
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Well I think it might be a challenge if you have been in the friend zone for a while. For me, it's all about setting up the "friendship" the right way. You can play buddy buddy, which allows you to be friends for a bit, all the while convincing her to fall for you. However, you have to keep it fun and flirty. You can't just be the guy she airs her laundry to and talks about her boyfriend with. You have to be the guy demonstrating value and letting her know that she would be lucky to have a chance with you. My suggestion would be to go out for drinks sometime and just casually flirting. See how she responds. If she has no sexual interest in you (which is highly unlikely since girls want it just as much as guys), try to create it with various techniques. Neil Strauss has a book called "The Game" that is full of useful techniques. Basically, through the use of language, gestures, and touch, you can create just about any emotion you want...the key is making sure she has the chance to link those feelings to you. |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Mon Jul 19, 2010 3:59 pm ] |
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well do you want a relationship or just sex??? and do you care about losing them as friends? i think you need to think about this before you continue |
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| Author: | Jav [ Mon Jul 19, 2010 4:13 pm ] |
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Meet new girls, much easier |
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| Author: | En1gm4 [ Mon Jul 19, 2010 9:22 pm ] |
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The majority of the friends Im talking about i knew through college. They have moved away and i rarely see them. I want to see what they are like in bed mainly. One in particular I've fooled around with but then she done the whole "Oh, this is weird" routine on me and i didn't know how to react. So i actually want to conquer her big time haha. Another friend is a work collegue. I've known her a month and a bit and i just want to get into her panties. Shes a lil emo and keeps telling me she loves it up the ass...Whats not to love? So yeah, suggestions? I've read The Game so know of some techniques...I just didnt know if when applied to friends the same rules apply? |
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| Author: | ~Finesse [ Mon Jul 19, 2010 9:49 pm ] |
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You gotta change their perception of you. This means, take a break from them, and don't see them for a while. (If you start acting different all of a sudden they'll be like 'wtf?') Then when you next meet them, be a lot more cockier, cheekier, charming, and flirty than usual. You MUST keep this up. Slip into old you, and they'll place you right back in that old perception box. If you can't really avoid them, then make that change, and they'll have to get used to it. (They will eventually), be careful doing it too sudden though, as could be weird, especially if you expecting immediate results. Most "Game" methods are very sequential, as in, meet>middle>fuck ... it's veryyyy weird to try and apply to people you already know. Half of the "Game" stuff is pointless anyway. |
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| Author: | Nova86 [ Sat Jul 24, 2010 8:00 pm ] |
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a lot of the stuff in the book is based on the rules of attraction...ideally they work with almost any woman, especially when alcohol is involved. |
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| Author: | stevenknowswhy [ Sat Jul 24, 2010 10:41 pm ] |
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This is all about FRAMES The way they have framed it is "my friend." The way you want to frame it is "between their leg asking you to f*** them harder." The suggestion that you take some time away from them and come back cockier and stronger is a good one, but there's a way to get things done much faster but it takes a little work. The key is to get them out of the zone that they know you and feel comfortable and into a new zone that totally different and shakes things up a bit. Let me give you an example from my experience. There was this girl who I had the hots for and I wasted all kinds of game on her. But she always shot back that she doesn't date guys she works with from the office. So, one day I made a friendly wager with her and instead of money I said she had to come rock climbing with me. She said she never did it before but it sounded like fun. I found the rock that was very scary but managable for a beginner. So I took her out of the frame I'm just another co-worker to the frame that I'm her guide, protector, strong and handsome. We had sex that night. But it would have never happen if I tried to change her frame of our relationship in the office. So here's my tip, when trying to change out of the friend zone, get them out of their comfort zone with you. Do something daring, risky, scary and fun. This is have their adrenaline peaking and all of their scenses firing off. And that's what you want my friend. Have them at a peak state with you in their head. That's just my opinion. Hope it helps. |
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