i dont know if its just my luck with the girls i go for, or if its just the way all women are...
please share techniques and or experiences....
it seems that with every girl i deal with .... the innocent flirting escalates, becomes sexual but always subtle, always suggestive double entoundras, etc.... then i make the moves and close on the first or second date. (good)
this leads to a one week fling.... hot sex with a new girl is the best, her attitude is usually..."i want your cock", saying things like "you better bring the goods tonight", or "bring lube tonight so we can get a little dirty", or "you wanna let me know about all of those perverse fetishes of yours?" (great)
after i about a week.... 5 or 6 nights of sexual encounters.... emotions take over in their' mind, i suppose (they start to fall in love). saying things like "i havent seen you in 2 days
", or "i loved sleeping next to you", or "can you come over and snuggle me, i miss you"............. attitude changes from horny nympho to lovey dovey wifey. (ut ohh)this happenes with every girl i deal with. am i doing something wrong here??? or is every woman like this?? i try my best to frame things in a sexual manner without ever being direct.... but they want to turn me into the boyfriend, right now i just want to be the lover.
is it ok to be a little more direct with sexual suggestions after weve had sex several times??? saying things like "oh you mean like the time i had my tounge in your ass, is that what your talking about
???"i cant think of any other way to keep things framed sexually without being direct at this stage....
i dont want to be the heartbreaker, but i also dont want to resort to displaying lower value by burping in her face, etc.
share experiences....
