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| Author: | Roland1232 [ Mon Jul 12, 2010 8:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | How damaging is a failed shit test? |
I failed one in spectacular fashion recently (gave up my frame, accepted hers, qualified myself), with a girl that was practically all over me. After that, her demeanor towards me has perceptibly changed, much to my frustration. Is there any chance to salvage this mess, like by shutting her out and ramping up the C&F for a while, or should I just move on? She works with me and has been into me for about 2 months. |
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| Author: | Visionxxxxxx [ Mon Jul 12, 2010 9:21 am ] |
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If she's into why the hell would you want to move on? Regain your desired frame and carry on Columbus. |
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| Author: | Roland1232 [ Mon Jul 12, 2010 9:26 am ] |
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I'd like nothing more, but I had the impression (I'm a newbie, btw) that a failed shit test demonstrates incongruence to a woman and is an automatic game over. |
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| Author: | Visionxxxxxx [ Mon Jul 12, 2010 9:45 am ] |
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Whether youve failed a shit test or not means nothing on its own. You should judge the situation by her attraction levels for you. If she is still attracted to you and is making this clear then whats the problem? Carry on as you were! (just be aware of maintaining a dominant frame in future). Dont take failing a shit test too harshly, women are 'forgiving', we're all human here. Just dont show her a pattern of giving into her frame else it most likely will be game over sooner or later. |
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| Author: | Roland1232 [ Tue Jul 13, 2010 12:35 am ] |
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Quote: If she is still attracted to you and is making this clear then whats the problem?
You didn't read my first post correctly. I said "After that, her demeanor towards me has perceptibly changed, much to my frustration. "She's behaving colder and less receptive to my advances. I want to know how to proceed from here. |
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| Author: | Visionxxxxxx [ Tue Jul 13, 2010 8:08 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: If she is still attracted to you and is making this clear then whats the problem?
You didn't read my first post correctly. I said "After that, her demeanor towards me has perceptibly changed, much to my frustration. "She's behaving colder and less receptive to my advances. I want to know how to proceed from here. Keep in mind that it might just be coincidental that her behavior changed after you failed her so-called shit test (can you elaborate on the shit test) Also, what advances? via text? calling her? in person? Only thing you can really do is carry on as you were but try to care less about the outcome as this is probably why you initially gave into her frame. The one true test is request to meet up with her, if she agrees then you probably havent 'screwed' things up as badly as you may have thought. |
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| Author: | Sticksie [ Tue Jul 13, 2010 8:44 am ] |
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Dude you can never be totaly blown out. Get rapport with her again and get her talking. Then start to break rapport and re-iniate the flirting. You dont necessaryly need to do Attraction first. Alot of methods follow that line though you can start in Comfort and then *break rapport* to start Attraction builing. So get rapport again, then break it... You can do this in about 10-20 minutes. -have fun |
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