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| Author: | gotwhyte [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 1:24 am ] |
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Do you say anything to that? Is it just a test? Is it just her saying I'm not easy? Is it just her trying to make herself look good? What does it mean to you in other terms? |
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| Author: | Herne [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 1:26 am ] |
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im special and im not easy--im the 1 in every thousand unique girl,im the ultimate prize is kinda what shes saying |
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| Author: | Jelly [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 1:57 am ] |
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sounds like an ASD. ignore it, she'll prolly need more comfort type gaming, and strong sexual frames will raise her defense |
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| Author: | Lips_and_Hips [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 2:46 am ] |
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"I'm not like other girls" Definition = "I am better than other girls and I am the one you want to spend your time with." |
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| Author: | ItsAlwaysOn [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 2:48 am ] |
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you didn't give the context, so it's tough to say. if you gave more background info, we could probably tell you more. like how long you've known her, what your relationship is, how she said it, was it over text, what you said to provoke it, etc etc etc... one way to respond is the way-over-the-top sarcastic approach: "OMG, ya, your sooooooooooo different. I mean, other girls like to hang out with their friends, go to the gym, and go shopping. And you like to do crazy shit like hang out with your friends, go to the gym, and go shopping." as usual with this type of approach, you need to calibrate it and know how not to come off like an asshole or too tryhard. then there's the basic c&f response: "yeah, your much weirder" if you've known her longer and are at the stage with her that you can comfortably give compliments, you can just respond with a sincere: "yeah, and that's one of the things i like the most about you". |
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| Author: | gotwhyte [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 4:14 am ] |
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Oh I see. It was my first night hanging out with this girl. She mentioned it twice. She said I was different from the other guys when I caught onto her sarcasm. I just kinda ignored it you know. I was honestly just being all chill relax. Normal conversations. I seized opportunities to throw in some sexual jokes. The DD you're much weirder does sound like something I will use in the future. |
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| Author: | ItsAlwaysOn [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 3:14 pm ] |
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ok, so if she mentioned it twice the first time you guys ever hung out, then it's probably something that's important to her. being different from other girls, that is. so i would recommend just keeping that in mind and using it as the relationship escalates to qualify her. as in the main reason that you like her is because she's not like other girls. obviously you don't want to say it every single day to her, but if you can use it very sparingly and make her feel special with it, then it'll probably help her to feel comfortable sexually with you. |
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| Author: | gotwhyte [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 4:04 pm ] |
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its not like im trying to get with her, but im seizing every opportunity with girls as practice |
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| Author: | jazestix [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 4:42 pm ] |
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if in Attraction phase, i would treat it as a shit test. "i'm not like other guys...i wonder if we'd even get along since we're both so damn unique" if in late Comfort or Seduction phase, id turn the charm on (assuming she hasn't done anything to warrant punishment). It's ASD and u need to make her feel special and the moment itself is special. "look at me...do u think i'd be here right now with u if i didn't know that? all the other cookie-cutter bubblegum girls bore me, compared to u" |
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| Author: | StreetLight [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 6:11 pm ] |
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I hate it when people treat themselves like there such DARN special unique snowflakes of creations... u are special like anyone else saying "I'm not like other girls" is such a try hard... |
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| Author: | gotwhyte [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 12:21 am ] |
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yeah i took it as her trying to qualify herself to me |
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| Author: | TkoKing [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 12:29 am ] |
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Definitely DHV, I would just throw out an light neg if she played that card. |
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| Author: | Sticksie [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 3:52 am ] |
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I would ask her what she means bye that. She'll probably say something like: Her: I'm not that easy Me: Thats a shame, what if you had a few drinks? Her: I dont know I'm just different Me: Yeah everybody likes to think there different or Ok so what makes you so different form that girl. (She'll probably tounge tie here, Just change the subject) Her: Im gona be a star (exaderated slightly though something like that) Me: Yeah I can tell that about you Her: Oh really Me: Yeah the big head gives it away see. (then freeze out) Then follow up and make her qaulify herself for a decent reason. |
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| Author: | Jelly [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 4:51 am ] |
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yea context is way important. I was figuring it was comfort stage and she didnt want to be a slut, was using it as ASD. As others said it could be her qualifying herself or she perhaps perhaps she wanted u to ask more about her, but u must def sound like you have control and are of higher value, it almost comes off as she thinks your a player, context is everything, also the percieved value she has of herself |
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| Author: | gotwhyte [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 6:19 am ] |
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I honestly would never take im not like other girls a DHV...i hear it so much...shits not anything new. i was still im m1(at least thats how i felt). i honestly wasnt on the look out for IOI's. I was driving mostly, and just having conversation...She still hits me up though lol. i wouldn't neg her...she doesn't need them |
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