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Author:  freeletme [ Wed Jul 07, 2010 5:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Should I pursue this?

I went out clubbing last week with some friends, one of these friends is a girl i have liked for a while. I must point out that she has a boyfriend. Before we went out that night i sent her a flirty text saying "i hope you dress nice for me tonight". Throughout the whole night she was texting and phoning me alot. She also said that she wanted to talk to me about something several times but failed to do so when i met up with her. She was after my attention all night. I will also mention that she was being a bit teasing to guys in the dance floor. Anyway at the end of the night she phoned me and asked me what i meant by "i hope you dress nice for me tonight", i didn't know what to say. She hung up but sent me a text saying "do you care for me". I also didn't answer this as i was unsure if she was after attention. She's never been like that around me before so i thought maybe she had feelings for me.

My friend asked her the next day about the text she sent and whether she liked me or not. She didn't answer him and changed the subject. I asked her later the next week about it and she said she was curious about whether i liked her or not but that she didn't want to know the answer.

A week later i said i was going out in the town she lives in and she mentioned coming out for a drink with me. She didn't in the end.

The other day i asked her if she wanted to go out for the day to do something. She initially said yes and sounded up for it but she started saying what if people see me with another guy, they will talk. She also then said that her boyfriend wouldn't like it if she went out with me.

So after all of that here is my question. Is she worth working on even though she has a boyfriend?. To me it sounds like she has some feelings for me but is morally chained to her boyfriend. What do you guys think?

Thanks

Author:  HBT [ Wed Jul 07, 2010 5:45 pm ]
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steal his cookie. he's obviously not doing something right. but its up to you...if you decide to...dont focus all your attention on her...keep ur options open...

Author:  freeletme [ Wed Jul 07, 2010 6:04 pm ]
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I have been thinking about this too much so im going to chill out abit so i can be in the right frame of mind around her. I'm thinking of upping the flirting and teasing around her so that she feels more attraction towards me. I would never steal a girl from her boyfriend. You never know whats around the corner so i'll just stay friends with her for now, but not good friends obviously.

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