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| Author: | Chukz15 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 9:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | In highschool want to become PUA. |
I'll make this quick. I'm sixteen years old and I want to change my social life. I have social anxiety I get nervous even asking my dad fir something I always tell my sister to do it. I hVe been called ugly before. I have two good friends and that's about it. Never had a Girlfriend. If I talk To a girl it is through instant messaging over yahoo answers where I'm lying constantly to sound cool. I've never been to a party and don't know how to interact socially. I take alot of AP classes which usually have strict teachers don't allow talking so I pretty much don't talk to any girls during school. I'm usually frustrated over this so I'm mean to bitches always trying to copy my homework or use me for just answers and shit. I don't give fuck and will cuss out Amy bitch that thinks she can take advantage of me. I also have a heavy fear of rejection. |
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| Author: | DennisNL [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 2:18 pm ] |
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hi i am sixteen too first off all don,t lett them take advantage off you they will only use you so they don,t have to do their homework i was just like you a few years back but i changed allot if i were you i would go out with your friends just have fun, when you are comfortable maybe talk to some people that you may recognize from school just say hi don,t you go to xyz school ? blablabla etc hope it helps |
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 3:17 pm ] |
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dude, you just have pent up anger. Try some MMA or something. srsly. Thats like and PUA advice right there. |
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| Author: | Chukz15 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 8:08 pm ] |
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Quote: dude, you just have pent up anger.
This has nothing to dow ith my question at all.
Try some MMA or something. srsly. Thats like and PUA advice right there. |
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| Author: | DennisNL [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 10:29 pm ] |
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well i am into martial arts this gave me confidence and i met tons off people i gained muscle and this helped me with my looks and my self image i agree with upper comment though |
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| Author: | zappo [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 10:48 pm ] |
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Im working kind of on a post for people in your situation which im going to upload within the next week or so in the pua lounge so keep scoping for it . As said Martial arts is a good start . One of the problems is people get trapped in a circle of having nothing interesting to say because they have no interests due to this fact they get scared and dont go out and do something which would make them interesting( and give them something to talk about) as they are scared of interacting and being seen as boring to other people as it would be damaging to your ego . This cycle will continue until you break it . One of which is joining a martial arts club where you dont just get taught martial arts but a lot of other subconscious things that can help like discipline , how not to give a shit , how to asses situations . All in all GET OUT OF YOUR CAGE AND DO SOMETHING ! |
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| Author: | Chukz15 [ Tue Jul 06, 2010 3:20 am ] |
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I don't have the money for martial Arts nor do I like it. If I had the money I would go to the gym in start bodybuilding. It is easy to body build you can progressively gain and don't get embarrassed shall you fuck up, and there is step by step plans that work. This is not same while trying to get women. |
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| Author: | mR.e [ Tue Jul 06, 2010 7:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | ok |
ok kid first of all i can tell that simply the way you are talking on here being all negative brings no suprise to me that you cant get girls first of all for high school game you need to be positive. seriously! always positive, people like positive people, when you smile at some one and they always see that your happy they will smile back. and over all because of that simple little positive aspect alone, nothing else just a smile as you see people, everyone will enjoy your company. think about that man i just gave you a little tip that is the basis to success in all game, no matter if its from natural game to nlp to mystery method it is the only way you will get anywere with girls. so concider trying to be positive in general, just over all happy to people maybe complimenting them but if your not ready for that just smiling and saying hi. this little tool will trigger you to have success, think bout when you have real specifics to use? think how many girls you will have in your life when you get some real expereince and teaching under your belt? if you really wanna get girls and i mean REALLY have the burning desire for a good life with women, you gotta start out by being positive and having that outlook. if you dont your basiclly telling yourself to go fuck yourself take my advice, it will help you mR.e ps-and please dont go off and think im like some 28 year old guy who has been in the game for 10 years or is a model or some garbage like that, a little info bout me is that im 18, and just like every other guy in high school. i made it to the top of the social scene in 3 years of hard work, no one to help me. now im here to help high school guys who dont have it easy, iv been there before |
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| Author: | Chukz15 [ Tue Jul 06, 2010 8:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ok |
Quote: ok kid first of all i can tell that simply the way you are talking on here being all negative brings no suprise to me that you cant get girls
I'm always positive. This is the thing with the internet, you can't use tone of voice, facial expressions or naything so it comes off as me being a sarcastic asshole I always try to be positive girls don't always reciprocate/pay attention, and it is not like I have many friends anyway so I truely don't even know where to start. I'm a junior in High School if this shit contuinues in college I'll seriously think about putting a gun to my head....Well not that serious but you get where I'm coming from.
first of all for high school game you need to be positive. seriously! always positive, people like positive people, when you smile at some one and they always see that your happy they will smile back. and over all because of that simple little positive aspect alone, nothing else just a smile as you see people, everyone will enjoy your company. think about that man i just gave you a little tip that is the basis to success in all game, no matter if its from natural game to nlp to mystery method it is the only way you will get anywere with girls. so concider trying to be positive in general, just over all happy to people maybe complimenting them but if your not ready for that just smiling and saying hi. this little tool will trigger you to have success, think bout when you have real specifics to use? think how many girls you will have in your life when you get some real expereince and teaching under your belt? if you really wanna get girls and i mean REALLY have the burning desire for a good life with women, you gotta start out by being positive and having that outlook. if you dont your basiclly telling yourself to go fuck yourself take my advice, it will help you mR.e ps-and please dont go off and think im like some 28 year old guy who has been in the game for 10 years or is a model or some garbage like that, a little info bout me is that im 18, and just like every other guy in high school. i made it to the top of the social scene in 3 years of hard work, no one to help me. now im here to help high school guys who dont have it easy, iv been there before |
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| Author: | DennisNL [ Tue Jul 06, 2010 10:26 am ] |
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oke killing yourself won,t get you girls either and that you are thinking of suicide is not healthy if you do commit suicicide you are just running away from everything you have your whole life in front of you man i recognize myself in you, I have been there ! no friends no money no girls there was this classmate that was always talking about his hobby,s and one off them interseted me (mopeds) i got a job and got my first moped i grew a bond with him and got into his friendsgroup i changed as i was riding or just tuning up,i got confidence later on i found out about kung fu a year later i could name allmost all movies off jet li,jackie chan,bruce lee and those go back to 60 till now so that,s allot i trained on my own with dumbells and stuff (got some muscle onthem bones) i wanted to learn so i joined a school that gave me confidence too after all this i went out with this group,to clubs bars etc now they are my best friends you see man you can do it too just a small thing can change your life ! |
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| Author: | Sticksie [ Tue Jul 06, 2010 10:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: In highschool want to become PUA. |
Quote: I'll make this quick. I'm sixteen years old and I want to change my social life. I have social anxiety I get nervous even asking my dad fir something I always tell my sister to do it. I hVe been called ugly before. I have two good friends and that's about it. Never had a Girlfriend. If I talk To a girl it is through instant messaging over yahoo answers where I'm lying constantly to sound cool. I've never been to a party and don't know how to interact socially. I take alot of AP classes which usually have strict teachers don't allow talking so I pretty much don't talk to any girls during school. I'm usually frustrated over this so I'm mean to bitches always trying to copy my homework or use me for just answers and shit. I don't give fuck and will cuss out Amy bitch that thinks she can take advantage of me. I also have a heavy fear of rejection.
I gota agree with the pent up anger. Get that handled first and then learn some game. Go to this site. Innergametapping.com this is called eft(emotional freedom technique) it works well though it looks stupid. doesnt matter though because no one has to see you do it. Then before actually learning pick up go to doubleyourdating.com and take a look at Advanced datibng technique. its literally the best thing out there for beginers. No offence but you have some anger issues dude. Get it handled allong with your social anxieties and start learning about women first (not game). once you are starting to understand abit about them and start accepting them how they are, then you'll be ready for game. |
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| Author: | Flynn [ Tue Jul 06, 2010 11:11 am ] |
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Quote: This has nothing to dow ith my question at all. |
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Tue Jul 06, 2010 2:57 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: dude, you just have pent up anger.
This has nothing to dow ith my question at all.Try some MMA or something. srsly. Thats like and PUA advice right there. It'll fix your self image, your outer image, get rid of your teenage angst, and get you into a more flowing mindset when dealing with girls. you want a magic pill that says "do this to get girls" but in highschool, the girls are already free to be taken, your problems are internal. |
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| Author: | Chukz15 [ Tue Jul 06, 2010 3:14 pm ] |
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Quote: oke killing yourself won,t get you girls either
and that you are thinking of suicide is not healthy if you do commit suicicide you are just running away from everything you have your whole life in front of you man i recognize myself in you, I have been there ! no friends no money no girls there was this classmate that was always talking about his hobby,s and one off them interseted me (mopeds) i got a job and got my first moped i grew a bond with him and got into his friendsgroup i changed as i was riding or just tuning up,i got confidence later on i found out about kung fu a year later i could name allmost all movies off jet li,jackie chan,bruce lee and those go back to 60 till now so that,s allot i trained on my own with dumbells and stuff (got some muscle onthem bones) i wanted to learn so i joined a school that gave me confidence too after all this i went out with this group,to clubs bars etc now they are my best friends you see man you can do it too just a small thing can change your life ! Lol it was a joke im not stupid and I'm going to Vegas today and I don't know what but I have this super confidence/Swagger to my step now last night I wanted to make 20 approaches last night. I just want to learn certain tactics to make conversation flow. I'm thinking of doing direct approaches as they are more flattering and unexpected. The thing is I take a lot of AP classes so Teachers tend to be more strict on tlaking when they are giving a lesson and limit moving so I get kidna stuck socializing, but I'm looking into this year with new high hopes. I just need a spot where I can get the girl isolated for 1-on-1 conversation which I'm sure some forum members know how to do. |
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| Author: | Sticksie [ Tue Jul 06, 2010 3:44 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: oke killing yourself won,t get you girls either
and that you are thinking of suicide is not healthy if you do commit suicicide you are just running away from everything you have your whole life in front of you man i recognize myself in you, I have been there ! no friends no money no girls there was this classmate that was always talking about his hobby,s and one off them interseted me (mopeds) i got a job and got my first moped i grew a bond with him and got into his friendsgroup i changed as i was riding or just tuning up,i got confidence later on i found out about kung fu a year later i could name allmost all movies off jet li,jackie chan,bruce lee and those go back to 60 till now so that,s allot i trained on my own with dumbells and stuff (got some muscle onthem bones) i wanted to learn so i joined a school that gave me confidence too after all this i went out with this group,to clubs bars etc now they are my best friends you see man you can do it too just a small thing can change your life ! Lol it was a joke im not stupid and I'm going to Vegas today and I don't know what but I have this super confidence/Swagger to my step now last night I wanted to make 20 approaches last night. I just want to learn certain tactics to make conversation flow. I'm thinking of doing direct approaches as they are more flattering and unexpected. The thing is I take a lot of AP classes so Teachers tend to be more strict on tlaking when they are giving a lesson and limit moving so I get kidna stuck socializing, but I'm looking into this year with new high hopes. I just need a spot where I can get the girl isolated for 1-on-1 conversation which I'm sure some forum members know how to do. My best advice to you is get a hobby, do some self help theropy, watch advanced dating techniuqe (warning its 18 hours long and you will need pen and paper for notes, leave your self 3 full days to watch it though the good news is you can get it through a torrent) and get something going for you that you can show for yourself and be proud of. PU isnt a buch of tricks, it's a true art thats backed bye a science. And as for going direct, it is the best way to go (if you can pull it off) it takes time to build that. At least going indirect is easyer. Just start bye asking for directions and build off that with a story if your gona approach. Maybe youve heard that women are highly intuitive??? Its true. And youve got some real anger for women there bye the sound of it. Dont worry about isolation yet. Start bye learning to hold court in groups. There just isnt any easy answers here dude. If you just want to get laid then get a job and go to the brothel. its less effort. But if you want to get this part of you life handled then take our advise because your lucky to have it. |
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