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| Author: | fresh83 [ Sat Jul 03, 2010 11:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help stuck between over qualifing and being boring |
I would perfer someone that had a sim situation to mine bc i feel advice on pick up has a few varriables to consider. I am 20 years old , have a fulltime job at oakland university in mi and go to school there fulltime. i have a car and a dorm to myself. i am a attractive guy , in shape tan, about 5'7 or 8 and center my life around following my dreams and i make this very public, 3.8 gpa and motivation and drive just sweats out of my pours , i have big big ideas for a few startup companys and its pretty well known on campus. i also dress good. nice and clean cut, almost look militant this summer. my problem is im a introvert and ive always been my own person , i dont follow the crowd and i have no problem at all spending the day alone just getting shit done and thinking.This thinking has made me a very deep person and my life is pretty well thought out . The reason i bring all this up is that i feel like alot of times girls think im to good or that they could never control a guy like me but, truth be told the girls im attracted to r usually shy quiet short brunettes that are cool with a movie at home in pajamas on a sat.That and i have nothing to talk about with the amazingly hot girls that pick me out in clubs. to giv a example , last night the hottest girl in the club came right up to me , grabed my shirt and said "i want you " and pulled me on the floor. She procded to grind her ass on me with the facial expressions as if i were actually inside her . shed place my hands on her inner thighs just so i could keep my balance and she could grind harder. this girl was gorgeous , she had all the girls i was previously dancing with hating but, when i had a chance to talk to her outside for a cig , it dwindled , i wasnt interesting , i was stuck as i always am between , not wanting to brag about all the way above average ambitions i have , in fear of loosing her bc she cant relate and being legitimately boring.Like mm teaches , u cant use logic on girls . so i try to find as many subconscious ways to express my value, things like making a bedroom that anyone could walk into and get to know me without meeting me but, this isnt enough , i need solid game , solid routines that work , i know there has to be a gold mine somewhere on this stuff , its just a matter of finding it . http://i798.photobucket.com/albums/yy26 ... _66484.jpg |
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| Author: | Riott [ Sun Jul 04, 2010 8:37 am ] |
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I think you're stuck on talking about yourself. Honestly, you shouldn't have to bring that you're a great guy with goals and a lot going for you- it's comes off to me like you're trying to sell yourself to the girl- you're qualifying yourself to her. If you're the prize, make her work it. It sounds like she was already attracted to you. You don't need to sell yourself at all- you're good. You just need to move forward into sexual comfort. Going back to attraction is just pointless. However, you could test her and throw out a series of qualification hoops to see if the attraction is genuine. If she doesn't qualify herself then she isn't attracted to you enough- and you need to playfully tease her. Call he cute, adorable. Disqualify her from being a possible romantic interest. Whatever amps of attraction. Then try to qualify again. Conversation doesn't need to be the most interesting thing ever- just fun. If a girl is having fun- she'll hang out with you all night. If you can identify where the girl's at in the interaction- you can see what you need to do next to get to the ultimate goal of sex. If you can get her to jump through a large qualification hoop like, "What do you have going for you more than your looks?" You're in comfort. Attraction is there- and you can start incorporating some rapport building questions. Routines are great for when you are out of stuff to talk about- but relying on them is kind of weak. Use qualification statements or questions to see how invested she is and use attraction when needed. Hope that helps. |
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