"Things are not always what they seem; the first appearance deceives many; the intelligence of a few perceives what has been carefully hidden"
Its the summer of Love, and you obviously you want to be getting some. But are dressed for the attack?
Dont be a Mime, your appearance should reflect your life. Think the other way around, how many Girls have looked at you and thought you look exactly like the other men she has seen that day. Cowboy shirt, Grey Jeans, Grade one Haircut.
Dont "Peackock", because that attracts un-neccessary attention, putting you already on a scale, already people are judging you, to that same idiot they met last week who wore similar bright, attention seeking clothing - looking like a giant flavoured Condom.
This isnt always the reaction you want. Is that Bright Green shirt reflecting your sexy cool personality, are those shoes making people laugh at you instead of your jokes and does that haircut make you look like their Dad.
David Beckham - His clothing sense reflects him, cool calm, collective. Dim colours, Grey, White, Black. That caveman beard reflects his personality, beyond just a beard, its more of statement to women of his edgy, yet well-kept look is something women crave. Every man wants to be David, Every women wants to be with David. Remember this is off the Pitch.
Pharrell Williams- Those bright colours, pink polos, green trainers are a look not everyone can pull off without being transparent. His Dope clothing line, eccentric music and skaterboard team is the core behind his unqiue look.
So who are you? Are you a David Beckham, A Pharrell Williams or a Russell Brand?
Truth is neither. You are you, your personality should reflect whether you have a beard, if you wear you jeans low, or if you have the scarf with a Shirt or a bow tie.
But you need to be noticed at that first appearance, your clothes need to be complement your body. What makes that fireman hot? His uniform, so be that Fireman.
Don’t follow the crowd. Were not saying go out and buy the weird flowery shirt, or those £300 loafers, because you know nobody else has them in their closet. Instead use what you have in your personality, your music taste, your career. Get those jeans that shows those CK’s, get that shirt that makes your arms look more toned and your shoulders defined.
Make your clothes reflect you, not change your personality to fit your clothing.