Hey, I'd try something unusual to get her shocked a little bit
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| Author: | topknotchmc [ Thu Jul 01, 2010 5:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Pick Up Girl Working as Bag Girl in Grocery Store |
Ok guys need some tips . . . Let me explain what took place so far: I went to the grocery store only moments ago and saw this HB7 working as a bag girl. I didnt make eye contact with her as I was going to try and gain communication in her line later after i had got what I needed. (plus her back was to me) I noticed her line was quite long and I only had one item and thought that it might seem try hard if i went to that line, I also believe she saw me . . .looking at her. I was trying to make eye contact for an approach. I didnt get the eye contact. Amazingly enough when i was 2 people behind in line she came to my checkout as she approached i made eye contact and gave her a mysterious grin (No teeth) She grinned back (No teeth) and shifted her eye contact. I looked onward to regain the eye contact . . . (only seconds) then decided to look away . . .at the snack and items on the shelves . . .and later regain eye contact and communication when i was at the counter. But She left back to the other aisle to continue bagging. (Mind you the aisle she was originally bagging and later returned to were on the opposite side of the entrance I had entered and would be leaving and it was approximately 4 aisles over.) I didnt continue the approach as she was helping customers . . . (bagging their items) and it seemed it would be try hard if I went that distance. ****I would like your criticisms**** (thus far) Also I am in need of an opener for that kind of situation? On the way home i developed an approach if i would have been in her aisle and she bagged my item: "I think youre a cutie . . .want to see if there is more to you than meets the eye. . .what time you off work? Great . . .lets grab some yogurt at the new place down the way! Let me see youre phone: Input number (creative nickname) call myself. See you then!" (reading over just now it may seem to pushy but . . .) Let me know youre thoughts. I dont think shes going anywhere . . . .but i would like to approach ASAP. Thank you all |
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| Author: | minsok [ Thu Jul 01, 2010 8:19 pm ] |
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Don't ask, "What time do you get off work?" Everybody does that so it's AFC and a little creepy. Everybody asks if I know kung fu. It pisses me off, just because it's the same fucking question over and over again. If someone mixed it up and asked if I knew martial arts, or if I liked noodles, it wouldn't piss me off because at least it's fucking different. Whew. Give me a second. Same thing with girls, if they hear the same line every freaking day, they start to hate it and they will hate the person who said it. Lines like, "You're really pretty." Anyway, you have your work cut out for you. Most likely, she's already dating/screwing someone that works there. Basically you have to say, "Hey, I know you're working, but I'd like to talk to you outside of here. What's your number?" That part is easy. The hard part is you have to do it without her coworkers noticing and you have to get her number on the sly, too. You have to be James Bond sneaky, otherwise her ASD will be activated. I don't even know how you'd make it happen logistically since she's a bagger. But you have to do it while she's working, if you wait until she leaves for a break or whatever and then pounce on her, you look like a big time creep. Oh, and stop posting in multiple sections. |
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| Author: | topknotchmc [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 2:31 am ] |
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Cool. . .thanks alot! Like you said i have my work cut out for me! I was using the direct opener "I think youre a cutie. . .I want to see if there is more to you than meets the eye" (to display interest) I can see how it sounds like im complimenting which may be DLV. -Im thinking if i changed it to "I think. . .youre kind of cute . . .I want see if there is more to you than meets the eye" (I think that may work a bit better . . .because i am being direct with my interest but neg. her at the same time "kind of cute" -like to hear your thoughts and anyone elses. "Hey, I know you're working, but I'd like to talk to you outside of here. What's your number?" (This part alone I think is good . . . but i just worry about whether I can simply be blown off . . .due to lack of personality! With my above direct opener: I am displaying fun, confident, and teasing her. (No disrespect to your line above. I like how it is subtle. . .just question the ease to which it I can be blown off because she is in a awkward situation. Definitly like how you said I need to come off as interesting. . . a little bit different! My point in asking what time she is off is that I would have limited time for conversation at the checkout. . . and want to go for an instant date. I can see that maybe I have not built enough interest . . .so asking that might come off as banal conversation starter leading into something she might not yet be comfortable with. She works morning (at least today) all of her co-workers this morning were 35+ except for one man (who was decent looking) I sensed no bond between them two. I like the James bond idea . . . it is mysterious and exciting and should definitely play in my favor. . .just have no clue how I could make that happen. (Also I question if it would display a lack of confidence by hiding my actions and not sorta speak "going after what i want regardless of what everyone else thinks" Any creative ideas . . . .let me know? I would be willing to do this over multiple visits so any ideas for that type of game plan would be helpful as well. I meant no harm in posting. . . Thank All |
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| Author: | minsok [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 3:09 am ] |
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Dude, please don't ask her what time she gets off. I'm telling you, she'll instantly go into the script she tells every guy, "5 and it can't come soon enough." Or whatever. I promise she's been asked this a million times by guys trying to pick her up, by coworkers that are just wondering, by well meaning old people. This is not the way to make yourself stick out. And I think you're totally correct, just asking for her number has a high chance of rejection because yes, it is boring. It relies a lot on your ability to convey attraction and value non-verbally, but it also shows you are socially sensitive to the situation, which gives you points in girl-town. You're not going to have time for a speech and if anyone hears you call her "cutie", it's instant ASD and you will not get anything from her. James Bond would find a way to distract the check out person, chat the girl up for 10 seconds and extract her number. Maybe you should try mangling a barcode or having them check in the back for a certain brand of cigarettes. If you could figure out how to get rid of that obstacle, it would make an epic story. Of course... I'm open to other suggestions. The community gets real quiet when it comes to girls working. I think the simpler the better, even if you have to sacrifice some comfort and attraction. Just balls out ask for her number and try to be hush hush about it. And be prepared to memorize it. |
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| Author: | David Rhoades [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 3:16 am ] |
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Hey, I'd try something unusual to get her shocked a little bit
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| Author: | minsok [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 5:47 am ] |
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Use specific examples. He's only gonna have time to say one thing. Being weird... not so much. |
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