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| Author: | safety [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 3:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | what should i think of this relationship? |
ive been wih a girl for about 5 months now. also she was my oneitis for about 3 months before we were together... now the thing is that being with this girl is so different to anything ive had or felt ever. i mean im still young but ive been close to girls before and they all bored me or whatever but this girl excites me everyday even when we do nothing at all. every time my phone goes off i hope its her and every time im online i hope she is too, all this even tho we hang out almost every day. i hardly even look at other girls anymore either... now what im wondering is... will i ever feel this with another girl again? i mean i really dont want to pass it up. would i regret giving up PUA to be with this girl? does any1 have any experience with this? my head is so messed up, i mean on one hand i dont want this to end, but on the other i dont want to give up game to be with her then be dumped and have to start from afc again... i should probably mention i lost my virginity to her. i would say sorry for the essay but that would be afc |
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| Author: | David Rhoades [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 3:54 pm ] |
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It's up to you, but I would wait for some time to see if something would change. I would guess this girl impressed you the most, just because you've lost your virginity to her. Think again. |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 8:59 pm ] |
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I think you should crawl out of this girls ass. My apologies for being blunt, but you need to relax. What opportunity are you afraid of passing up? She is not the last girl you will feel this way about...I promise you that. Never give up the PUA lifestyle. Transforming yourself into a PUA can help you in all walks of life, not just girls. Good luck.... |
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| Author: | NikoGR [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 9:09 pm ] |
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safety: There is no one and only. Relationships and their successes are all based on different levels of compatibility. Furthermore, being a PUA is about much more then just picking/sleeping with new girls all the time. The skills learned while becoming a PUA help you be more confident, express yourself, and go after you want, in all aspects of your life. Its not something you just forget about because you choose to be in a monogamous relationship. So...don't be afraid to be with her, just realize that: A. The moment you are unhappy, move on B. There are hundreds of thousands of girls out there that can make you feel this way C. Always be true to yourself. While relationships can be about compromise, you should not need to change the core you to meet some criteria she has in her agenda. If you don't like whats going on, get out. |
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| Author: | safety [ Thu Jul 01, 2010 1:57 pm ] |
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thanks guys. niko i like what you said the best.and i didnt plan on giving up all aspects of the lifestyle, more just the sarging and things like that but i still want to improve myself in other areas (like confidence, presence, worth etc) i think what i will do is stay with her as long as she makes me happy (like you said) but at the same time stay in touch with my wing and keep my foot in the door of pua so that if the relationship ends i will have much more to do than mope about a lost girlfriend. |
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