just build up enough attraction. Girls think about guys a lot! But how the heck would we know if they think of us???
Most of the girls I know don't like to text the guy first. But hey, if a girl does text you first, then you know she thought of you. It doesn't mean she likes you, but it means she thought of you.
But hey, it could be an IOI that she's giving you (depending on how she said it). But when she said you make her smile, it's debatable, but I think that's an IOI.

Hi Guys

thanks for the replies - its actually been great help.

I am meeting her tomorrow. she sent me a text to meet up for drinks tonite, I said I cant, but what about friday? she said ok. We were flirting on the texts last night - asking me what she should wear tellin me what I should wear etc and basically i was bein cheeky - which made her smile and laugh.

Today we been texting all day, she said she liked me calling her by her nickname (that I made up for her) and she said she was looking forward to tomorrow.


This aint the first time we have gone out for drinks and this week we have been talking/textin all week whereas before we would only really talk at work or on the odd day here and there. So im feeling the vibe that tomorrow could be the day.

question - I now, where I failed so many times, I need to be confident enough to go in for the kiss. Tomorrow is now do or die. we flirted all week, on sat I tried to kiss her and didnt get far (maybe it was a test) How would I get to kiss her - whats a good k close routine? Ive seen a few in the other threads but none, that I read, appeal to me.

Chelios, that was a cute high-risk high-reward tech. I would use that myself because I have the balls to go for it. Johnnyboy on the other hand seems to not have the confidence to go for it. But depending on the your alpha male qualities, go for this one. I understand why it is hard to go for this kiss close because I usually need so much IOIs bfore i for the the kiss. We are all scared of the rejection of our kissclose. Now I have learned that the kiss is attained way bfore you actually go for the kiss by other attraction, comfort building, and seductive things that you do. And I also know that rejection is no big deal either because she is the one who is lucky to be kissing me...

Johnnyboy, if you are shy to go for it then I have two tech for you, which are very safe and effective. I do not remember where I got them (I did not make them up). But they always works for me. ONE-> The almost kiss. Here you tell the girl that you feel a connection btwn you two and you wanna do a test. then you tell her that its time for an almost kiss. set up the rules and make sure not to kiss her. she will think this is hilarious (have fun with it too). But you wanna make sure that you pinky swear or promise that you will not kiss her. tell her to pucker up her lips and you get as close to her as possible (u could even lightly touch her lips). It is hard to control yourself when so close to her luscious lips but show her that you can do that and that will be an DHV. Then tell her how nice that was. make sure you grabbed her and touched her hair as if you were going to kiss her, just dont do it. Of course after this happens, she will be thinking about actually kissing you. I feel it out after that when i want to go for the kiss. I usually blame it on her for wanting to kiss her. Then just go for it. TWO-> I tell her that if she looks at me like that again I will kiss her. She does not need to look at you no way; just say that so that she knows you will do it. Usually the girl's response will tel you whether she is ok with you kissing her or not. for example, if she says with attitude "u mean look at you like this" then go for it because she gave you the green light. if she says, no you better not. then obviously dont do it...