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Author:  fierykido [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 1:58 pm ]
Post subject:  How to "solidify" the attraction?
On my way to school today, i saw a classmate on the same bus with me, so i thought:"a lone wolf!"as gunwitch would put it.

So after both of us alighted(we were both heading to the school), i said "hello!" she was kinda sleepy but after 2-3 lines of conversation, she was visibly more awake.

On the short walk to our school, i didnt speak to her at all, i sometimes looked straight at her, and did some micro escalation(brushing against her etc), i could feel the tension growing, pretty sure that there is some attraction.

Then i did some small compliance test to make sure of the attraction(moving away from her etc), and she always come back brushing against me again, and i did some other tests(so there are definitely some attraction going on here huh?)

but the thing is, once we arrived in school(the cafeteria), she has to buy breakfast, and i have to do something else, so we just...sort of walk off from each other.

So how do i "solidify" the attraction so that it will not be just a passing emotion to her and that i can continue to build on it after a while?

(p.s as we are class mates, i can get her number anytime and i would often see her, but seeing her alone is only 35% of the time)
Author:  minsok [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 5:33 pm ]
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Try this out. It might seem like a big deal at your age, but just give it a try. Next time you're walking together, or next time you see her and even if she's with people, just get beside her, put your arm all the way over her shoulder so your hand hangs casually over her far shoulder. It's called the claw. Stormy gave it to me when I was starting out and now I am passing it down to you. power-of-the-claw-vt61389.html

So, if you have a little attraction, she should lean closer to you. Girls love it because it is very confident and manly. If there's not enough attraction, she might just stand stiff and not lean on you. Count to ten and if she doesn't respond, then you just take your arm away and you will feel a little embarrassed. It's a little risk, but a huge reward.
Author:  dkjscfklsdfhj [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 6:49 pm ]
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Geez, that sounds awesome. I will try it tonight.
Author:  NikoGR [ Wed Jun 30, 2010 8:02 pm ]
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kanato:

miksok gave you some solid advice for your school situation.

I know it's harder to do, but a direct approach would also be very effective. Simply asking if she wants to hang out this weekend, go to the mall or a movie. If she says no, no big deal, if she says yes, get her number and SET UP THE DATE.

Obviously, if she says yes, on this date you need to go in for the kiss close. If you don't, you will quickly fall into LJBFz.
Author:  minsok [ Thu Jul 01, 2010 2:21 am ]
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There's still school thursday and friday, his best option is to do the kino IMMEDIATELY instead of waiting until a weekend date. And if other people see them together, that will solidify that they are a couple instantly via social proof. Also, it takes more balls to do it in public, which the girl will likely appreciate.
Author:  fierykido [ Thu Jul 01, 2010 12:11 pm ]
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Try this out. It might seem like a big deal at your age, but just give it a try. Next time you're walking together, or next time you see her and even if she's with people, just get beside her, put your arm all the way over her shoulder so your hand hangs casually over her far shoulder. It's called the claw. Stormy gave it to me when I was starting out and now I am passing it down to you. power-of-the-claw-vt61389.html

So, if you have a little attraction, she should lean closer to you. Girls love it because it is very confident and manly. If there's not enough attraction, she might just stand stiff and not lean on you. Count to ten and if she doesn't respond, then you just take your arm away and you will feel a little embarrassed. It's a little risk, but a huge reward.
really? but if it fails, would it make things awkward between us at school for some time?
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There's still school thursday and friday, his best option is to do the kino IMMEDIATELY instead of waiting until a weekend date. And if other people see them together, that will solidify that they are a couple instantly via social proof. Also, it takes more balls to do it in public, which the girl will likely appreciate.
i would do it definitely if i have the chance again, probably mixing it into some conversation. thank you!
Author:  minsok [ Thu Jul 01, 2010 7:26 pm ]
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No, as long as you NEVER mention it if it fails, everyone will forget about it immediately. It's only as awkward as you make it and since you're blowing it way out of proportion and are already thinking about failing, you might as well not try it until you're in a positive mindset. It is not a big deal, get it in your head. It's something a social guy does. I've been flaked out on when I've made plans with a girl or just been straight up denied for a date. That feeling is 10x worse than if she doesn't reciprocate when you use the claw.
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