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| Author: | openMinded [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 11:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Gunswitch & Verbalization of Sexual Intent question |
"Furthermore, when someone perceives something in someone, but isn't directly told to them verbally by the person, they tend to think its THEY who are the ones imagining it - that it is comes from within them. That's why I tell you later to not verbalize your sexual intent in any way, as when you don't, she will more likely to think, "Why am I thinking sexually about this guy...hmmm I must want him or else I wouldn't see him as such a horny guy."-Gunswitch In this passage, Gunswitch mentions that we should never ever verbalize our sexual intention in any shape or form, because .... I don't even understand what he is trying to say. This part of the article is not well emphasized and supported, and I would appreciate a response or two from anyone who's read his stuff or knows what he is talking about. Thanks in advance peeps ! |
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| Author: | JOHNNYBOY29 [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 11:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gunswitch & Verbalization of Sexual Intent question |
Quote: "Furthermore, when someone perceives something in someone, but isn't directly told to them verbally by the person, they tend to think its THEY who are the ones imagining it - that it is comes from within them. That's why I tell you later to not verbalize your sexual intent in any way, as when you don't, she will more likely to think, "Why am I thinking sexually about this guy...hmmm I must want him or else I wouldn't see him as such a horny guy."-Gunswitch
The imagination is a powerful weapon and by leaving the girl to imagine things she will get so horny that she will want you so badly 1) because of the intrigue 2) she wants to know whether the fuck is as good as her imagination has told her and 3) she wants to know what you are like in bed. In this passage, Gunswitch mentions that we should never ever verbalize our sexual intention in any shape or form, because .... I don't even understand what he is trying to say. This part of the article is not well emphasized and supported, and I would appreciate a response or two from anyone who's read his stuff or knows what he is talking about. Thanks in advance peeps ! By telling her you are gonna go down on her or gonna kiss her inner thighs or fuck her up the ass, she kinda loses that sense of desire, intrigue and horniness. As I said the mind and the imagination is so powerful that it makes people want to do things so badly. |
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| Author: | openMinded [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 11:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gunswitch & Verbalization of Sexual Intent question |
Quote: Quote: "Furthermore, when someone perceives something in someone, but isn't directly told to them verbally by the person, they tend to think its THEY who are the ones imagining it - that it is comes from within them. That's why I tell you later to not verbalize your sexual intent in any way, as when you don't, she will more likely to think, "Why am I thinking sexually about this guy...hmmm I must want him or else I wouldn't see him as such a horny guy."-Gunswitch
The imagination is a powerful weapon and by leaving the girl to imagine things she will get so horny that she will want you so badly 1) because of the intrigue 2) she wants to know whether the fuck is as good as her imagination has told her and 3) she wants to know what you are like in bed. In this passage, Gunswitch mentions that we should never ever verbalize our sexual intention in any shape or form, because .... I don't even understand what he is trying to say. This part of the article is not well emphasized and supported, and I would appreciate a response or two from anyone who's read his stuff or knows what he is talking about. Thanks in advance peeps ! By telling her you are gonna go down on her or gonna kiss her inner thighs or fuck her up the ass, she kinda loses that sense of desire, intrigue and horniness. As I said the mind and the imagination is so powerful that it makes people want to do things so badly. I am not really convinced by this. Are you? Especially, because I am not a girl, it is even harder for me to picture this in her position. As a guy though, if a girl tells me she is going to let me touch her thighs, let me fuck her in the ass, I actually get more intrigued and horny lol. Is it really that different for a girl? There's gotta be more to this. |
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| Author: | BRAMWELL [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 11:35 am ] |
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I personally think taliking dirty to a girl is normal. They enjoy sex as much as we do. |
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| Author: | openMinded [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 11:36 am ] |
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Quote: I personally think taliking dirty to a girl is normal. They enjoy sex as much as we do.
This is exactly what I was thinking. Gunswitch contradicts this point with the above passage. Perhaps, this is why I am not following (understanding). |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 11:43 am ] |
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I never knew Gunwitch advocated indirect game. I've always knew his methods as being most direct;1 of the most direct and contraversial in the community. That means Gunwitch has opted for in-dirct gaming now. |
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| Author: | JOHNNYBOY29 [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 11:44 am ] |
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You can talk dirty but you dont talk dirty in relation to what you are gonna do to her. You talk dirty in relation to what you have done with other girls or just talk sex. What happens, from my understanding, is that the girls brain and imagination goes into overdrive. Imagine you sitting there on the train in silence, all of a sudden someone says I saw your mum and dad shagging last night. What would happen? Automatically your brain pictures them and no matter how much you try to eradicate the thought, the thought still persists. You get grossed out and disturbed. The same principle I guess applies with the GWM. You put the thought into the chicks mindset and she just cant get rid. She gets horny and hornier and all of a sudden loves you up. |
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| Author: | openMinded [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 11:45 am ] |
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Quote: I never knew Gunwitch advocated indirect game.
I agree with you. Good point to bring out too about the directness & indirectness.
I've always knew his methods as being most direct;1 of the most direct and contraversial in the community. That means Gunwitch has opted for in-dirct gaming now. |
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| Author: | openMinded [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 11:59 am ] |
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Quote: You can talk dirty but you dont talk dirty in relation to what you are gonna do to her.
The principal of subconsciously arousing a woman is starting to make sense, but I still don't see how verbalizing your intentions kills it.
You talk dirty in relation to what you have done with other girls or just talk sex. What happens, from my understanding, is that the girls brain and imagination goes into overdrive. Imagine you sitting there on the train in silence, all of a sudden someone says I saw your mum and dad shagging last night. What would happen? Automatically your brain pictures them and no matter how much you try to eradicate the thought, the thought still persists. You get grossed out and disturbed. The same principle I guess applies with the GWM. You put the thought into the chicks mindset and she just cant get rid. She gets horny and hornier and all of a sudden loves you up. |
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| Author: | BRAMWELL [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 12:12 pm ] |
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If you have enough comfort then i think it's fine. Then again it depends on the girl some love men who are direct & up front. |
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| Author: | openMinded [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 12:15 pm ] |
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Quote: If you have enough comfort then i think it's fine. Then again it depends on the girl some love men who are direct & up front.
So what's up with Gunswitch telling us not to verbalize our sexual intention? Is he wrong?
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| Author: | BRAMWELL [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 12:34 pm ] |
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wELL I'VE TOLD A GIRL THAT I'D LIKE TO FUCK HER & TOLD HER WHAT I'D LIKE TO DO. SHE DIDN'T RUN AWAY |
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| Author: | openMinded [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 12:53 pm ] |
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Quote: wELL I'VE TOLD A GIRL THAT I'D LIKE TO FUCK HER & TOLD HER WHAT I'D LIKE TO DO. SHE DIDN'T RUN AWAY
I wudn't think so. I think Gunswitch is wrong for once. what u think?
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 1:59 pm ] |
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Gunwitch isnt wrong nor contradictive. Guys,common pick-up sense,it depends on the phase and the vibe,etc. You're not gonna step to a girl with no attraction,looking like a bum,smelling awful and expect to be direct and say,"I wanna fuck you". Now,if the girl's already attracted,sending non-verbal IOI's,etc. One would have more success verbalizing their sex' intentions since she's already attracted. |
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| Author: | openMinded [ Tue Jun 29, 2010 6:22 pm ] |
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Quote: Gunwitch isnt wrong nor contradictive.
True. But was up with verbalizing ur sexual intention and killing GSM's ? How does verbalizing ur sexual intention kill the imagination is what i mean? Guys,common pick-up sense,it depends on the phase and the vibe,etc. You're not gonna step to a girl with no attraction,looking like a bum,smelling awful and expect to be direct and say,"I wanna fuck you". Now,if the girl's already attracted,sending non-verbal IOI's,etc. One would have more success verbalizing their sex' intentions since she's already attracted. I thought it would only strengthens it. well atleaste for guys that is when a girl verbalize such stuff. |
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