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| Author: | ChrisyRich [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 1:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | rAFC Needs to make girl friends |
I am an rAFC who needs to get comfortable around woman. So I literally want to make women friends (not even sexual). How would you guys recommend going about this, and preferably in a way that let's them know that I am only interested in being friends? Best, ChrisyRich |
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| Author: | quickdrawyall [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 2:50 pm ] |
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Why would you wanna limit yourself to being just friends? If they're interested in you then I'd say go for it all the way. You wanna get comfortable around women, but if any of them become obviously interested in you, I wouldn't deny that. Dating women is an awesome way to get comfortable around women. I say, aim to date them, and then be happy and fine with it if they just want to be friends. |
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| Author: | Luki123 [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 3:08 pm ] |
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Go to your local bar for a drink usually when i go women will approach me. Try to peacock so girls will approach you. I wear a all white outfit when i go to the bar which always gets some girls approaching and even a few cars hoot at me when walking there |
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| Author: | ChrisyRich [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 3:44 pm ] |
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Thanks for your quickdraw and Luki. It gives me some food for thought. Yeah, I'll definitely hit the bar. I am trying to get as many approaches as I can under my belt, even if sometimes I have no idea how I'm going to continue. I am already better than I was last week. I want to go from:   to 
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| Author: | Fireball [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 3:01 am ] |
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Quote: Why would you wanna limit yourself to being just friends? If they're interested in you then I'd say go for it all the way.
I think it could possibly be easier if you don't intend or expect it to escalate any further than friendship. LJBF the girl from the start, before she LJBF's you!
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| Author: | ChrisyRich [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 3:21 am ] |
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Thanks fireball, I do like that idea. I mean if I am just trying to get comfortable around chicks. I'll be like: M: Hello... H: Ummm hello. M: Let's be friends... Did you hear what happened last week?... (Whatever bullshit.) |
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| Author: | TheLastWolf [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 4:49 am ] |
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Girls are retarded, no point in making friends with them |
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| Author: | Zephyrine [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 7:54 pm ] |
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do some things that are typical feminine. This will give you something to talk about with women at the most basic level. Hang out with your buddy and his girlfriend. Turn female aquaintances into friends by hosting a party and inviting them. Offer advice on men to solidify the friendship. |
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| Author: | civilian [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 8:20 pm ] |
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if you want them to be just friends, why do an approach at all. just be yourself and hav fun, and they will come. just think back elementry-highschool. how did you becom friends with your MALE friends? im pretty sure u didnt go up to them and say: "Who do you think lies more? men? or Women?" |
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| Author: | ChrisyRich [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 1:31 am ] |
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Thanks for the advice, that is a pretty epic .gif image civilian. |
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| Author: | Trotyl [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 7:41 am ] |
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I'm sure there is atleast one male friend in your friend cirkel that knows alot of women or is good with women. You might wanna hang out with him more. You'll automaticly become friends with his female friends (usually) and you take away the cold-approach that causes approach anxiety. |
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