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Need a day 1 How to approach for a date? Phone text?
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Author:  Luki123 [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 8:46 am ]
Post subject:  Need a day 1 How to approach for a date? Phone text?
Ok so i meet this girl in kfc at like 24:00 Im in there with a few friends and she comes in from the club across the road, She knows 2 of my friends from college so eats with us. We just messing around amusing her and i find out that she lives like 30 seconds from me. I get her Facebook because she doesnt have her phone with her.

So i add her on facebook speak to her one time for about 10 seconds but she never comes online. So one time im driving past her house i find her at her driveway i stop my car in the road and i horn at her and she comes over to speak to me. I ask her why she lied that she lived down the other side of the road she replies she doesnt me to know her as the girl with the big house! Because its a mansion she lives in!

Ok so she asks me for my number but this time i dont have my phone! So i tell her to come on facebook and give me her number which she does, So i text her a few times some game but she doesnt reply much, I gave her a missed call one time and she called me back 15 mins later.

So she was texting me last night while she was in the bath. I know there are no other guys in her life. Im wondering how i am going to set up a date with her. Give her a call?? Texting her?? What im going to say!!?

Thanks guys
Author:  Chelios [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 11:17 am ]
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Use your initiative man, call her, she's already interested by coming online for you and stuff.

Too many newbies go to deep into game, be yourself man! As I said, she's already been interested by coming on FB when you demand.

A lot of people fail because they "have" to game, and it can ruin things. Being natural should be your way forward.
Author:  quickdrawyall [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 2:39 pm ]
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I wouldn't worry about what you're going to say. Calling is probably a little better cause she's less likely to flake when you put on that bit of pressure by actually calling, and talking to them in person. You said you're the only guy in her life, I'm not sure what exactly that takes to be a guy in her life, since she knew your two friends from KFC, but I'll just take your word on it.

You've already got some advantages, and she's already showed her interest. Just calm down, and call her.. or text her if you're feelin too nervous to actually talk to her.
Author:  Luki123 [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 2:48 pm ]
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Ok thanks alot guys! Ill proably text her sounds easier. Dinner, cinema?? Not sure. May use the old: have you seen... isit good enough to watch twice??... Saturday 8pm ill pick you up
Author:  quickdrawyall [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 2:54 pm ]
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I wouldn't do either of those. I'm not saying they're bad.. a date is a date, so nothing's that bad about it if you know how to act. I'd probably schedule something different. Go bowling, go play some pool, take a walk around the park just talking. You could kino escalate by holding her hand as you walk through the park, wrap your hand around her waist.

I would suggest something different for the first date from what every other guy has tried to take her out on. Being different, but in a good way is very important.
Author:  Luki123 [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 3:06 pm ]
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Thanks Quickdrawyall, we live in the countryside so a walk or something could be quite nice. Or to go for a coffee or something. I really feel like asking her right now might mess things up. Should i just man up and text her something like. Do you want to meet up sometime?x or something with a little more game in it?
Author:  quickdrawyall [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 3:51 pm ]
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I'm not sure how many times you've texted back and forth, and I'm not sure how positively she's responding to you, so I can't tell you for certain. I'd suggest you text her something like "going to go play some pool, you wanna come?" y'all play a game of pool or bowling or whatever, you leave, walk around for a while, talk, whatever. Do whatever sounds very comfortable to you, cause it will probably sound somewhat comfortable to her.

I know that for me I do a lot of texting game before I try setting up something. I think it works well for me, cause I'm still in high school, but I like starting a conversation up, letting it carry on for days, and playing "20 questions" where you basically both just take turns asking questions. I'll escalate by asking more personal and sexual questions. I'll get to the point of asking bra size, or if they're a virgin(probably a more personal question in high school than it is for adults, but I think you get the idea), something like that. If they answer something that most girls don't like sharing, I'll just say something like "come see a movie with me", or "what are you doing *whatever day I want*?" At that point I'm certain they're comfortable enough to go do whatever I want just us.

I think you could do either, text her a lot and build the attraction and comfort, or you can just ask her out to go do something right now. It's just important that you're certain in your decision and go all the way through with it.
Author:  Luki123 [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 4:05 pm ]
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Yeah sent a few texts back and forth mostly small talk like what have you been up to? etc..
she usually takes blooddy ages to reply unless shes in the bath..
And hasnt replied to my last message which was:

*Gave her a missed call*

Her: Oh i see, ohhh yr i remember, You rung? X
Me: Yeah i was lonely :( i found someone else to speak to thoughx

Then no reply.. But she probably will like in a few hours time.

How i would i then take the conversation into something mroe exciting like your questions routine or something.
Author:  quickdrawyall [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 4:27 pm ]
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I like starting it up right when I start to get bored of a topic, but it's still kinda going. Randomly switch and ignore whatever they said if it's not that interesting and just say "Do you like games?" they obviously say yes, unless they're really boring. Then you ask what games they like, blah blah blah "Do you wanna play a game with me? :)" they'll usually say sure. Then I go from there.

This works for my age group, I'm not sure how it'll work with older women. So don't blame me if it goes bad for you. :p
Author:  Luki123 [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 4:41 pm ]
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+1REP

Then after they say sure?? Ok lets play a little game of 20 questions. Ill start. When you told me you had only had sex with one guy i knew you wer lying. How many boys have you really had sex with? x

Something like that.

I dont know how old you think i am but we are both 18!
Author:  quickdrawyall [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 5:12 pm ]
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Haha, I didn't know how old you were. Don't start off being that direct with the questions. Starting off with asking hilariously lame questions can sometimes be funny(IMO). I've started with stuff like "What kind of toothpaste do you use?" eventually ask something like "When was your first kiss?" "When was the first time you made out with someone?" and keep pushing it slowly. Asking a really personal question at first ruins the building of suspense.
Author:  Chelios [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 5:28 pm ]
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Sorry to say this, but grow some balls, and call her, quit the small talk, call and ask her out. SIMPLE!
Author:  Luki123 [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 6:14 pm ]
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Man the whole point in being a pua is technique. You cant just go to girls do you wana fuck.

Its like saying Grow some balls and just go rob a bank. I think your missing Get a plan grow some balls and go rob a bank.

At the same time i see your point. I shouldnt be scared to mess things up . its not the way to go. Thanks
Author:  StanleyKowalski [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 7:58 pm ]
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If a girl asks you for your #, it's usually a shit test. Call her and TELL her when and where to meet. You HAVE to lead with girls. Also, only ugs don't ahve any guys in their lives. Just ebcause she isn't with anyone "officially" or talking about it, doesn't mean that she isn't consitently getting laid. Did you ever read Tyler's "Secret Society?"
Author:  Chelios [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 8:40 pm ]
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Man the whole point in being a pua is technique. You cant just go to girls do you wana fuck.

Its like saying Grow some balls and just go rob a bank. I think your missing Get a plan grow some balls and go rob a bank.

At the same time i see your point. I shouldnt be scared to mess things up . its not the way to go. Thanks
Trust me man, I know what being a PUA is, I've learn from experience in field, being out, not by pure material, I base myself on natural game, my own canned techniques.

When I say grow some balls, I mean be upfront, LEAD the way.

Not "hey let's go out, I'd like to wine, dine and pay for you, and maybe fuck you sometime"

I'd be more like "Hey, I'm in your area, or hey I'm local at this time/day, let's go grab a drink, go to the park/zoo/ bar, whatever."
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