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Author:  diablo333 [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 12:52 am ]
Post subject:  I am screwing this up time after time!!!

There is this one girl who I have been running into and talking to at a bar over the last 2 months. Long I know but I hadnt been there or seen her there every time so I'll say that I have maybe run into 5 times but I was kind of acquainted with her before that as in we knew eachother through friends but never talked.

Anyways to the story!
She is a really cool I would say HB9 and she kind of reminds me of myself in some ways (which could be a good or bad thing haha). I would not consider that I have oneitis towards this girl but I am really into her. She tries to tease me alot (even though she is bad at it lol) IOI? For some reason when I run into her at the bar she always asks me what I am drinking early in the conversation? My friend thinks she is into me, but he always tries to hookup people so it could be bs. I am just kind of feeling doubtful of it because she kind of has a reputation to be a huge flirt. I keep telling myself what do I have to lose by trying to hookup with her? But everytime I see her at the bar I never do it even after motivating myself about it before hand. I always see the scenario after being like "I wish I would have done that" but during the moment it occurs I never think of it or just bail.

I want to find ways where I can show interest in her without being really obvious. Like I am really new to all this PUA stuff so I am not really that good.

Also I dont really feel comfortable asking her out for coffee or anything like that yet partially because her friend does not like me at all. I don't feel like explaining why but it was something my friend did so it was not my fault, but her friend won't even talk to me anymore when we used to she is just a bitch. But this also makes the situation alot harder to deal with. Any ideas of getting around this.

Any advice would be much appreciated!

Author:  StanleyKowalski [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 4:39 am ]
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Girls want sex as much as us, the only difference is they get called "sluts" and we're called "amazing womanizers". ALWAYS deal with girls with this in mind. Don't verbalize sex, but escalate constantly and while isn a sexual state. You don't need to worry about "showing interest", she WANTS it. PM me if you want an expanation to sexual state/escalating as it's long.

Author:  Visionxxxxxx [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 10:02 pm ]
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Next time you see her and there is a comfortable and fun vibe going, kiss her. Youve seen her 5 times already and things are going to go stale very soon if you dont do it as in yesterady. Another option would be to take her into a different environment (ask her out for coffee), if she accepts she is probably interested. This will also take you away from being the guy that has seen her 5 times without making a move.

I dont see whats stopping you from having a coffee with her if her FRIEND is a bitch, how does that work? (always try win over the friends as a general rule of thumb but dont bust your balls doing it else you could easily come off as an ass kisser).

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