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| Author: | pacificdreamz [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 9:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Zen of Cool Challenge Pt4 |
Hey guys Pacific here with a challenge for you... for those of you familiar with the Zen of Cool you will understand this... for those of you who are not... look it up and learn it, or just don't worry about it and do the challenge step by step as I post it on here. This is a challenge to improve your inner game... here is how it goes... You will be working on your Ghost characteristics and your Flame characteristics... you will be Ghost (Not trying, Not having to try, Not even in that headspace) and Flame (Locking in, Telling Stories)... here is the challenge... CHALANGE Learning the Ghost: Today I will be OK with rejection, no agenda, not needy, not taking it seriously Learning the Flame: Today I will be vibing, adding value, showing appreciation NOTE: Notice how the Ghost and the Flame contradict each other. This is how the zen of cool is suppose to be. How Does This Look: As I'm vibing with people, adding value to peoples lives, and showing appreciation, I don't care if I get rejected, I'm not even looking for anything from anyone, I don't need anything, so there is no reason for me to take it that seriously. (I want you to apply this in your day to day life on anyone and everyone while sarging, hanging out with friends, or even working!) EVALUATING YOURSELF: Create a stop, start, continue list... anything you are doing wrong... put it under your stop. Anything you are not doing... put it under your start. Anything you are doing good... put it under your continue. Later you can go back and fix the Stops and begin the Starts and remind yourself to keep doing the Continues. Create a Sticking Points list... and put anything that you want to work on there. Do the 100 Point System challenge... which is... 100 Point System Every Time.. Your not trying Your not having to try Your not even in that head space You lock in You Tell a Storie You get 5 points... the goal is to get 100!!! and last but not least... Make a Crazy List of crazy things to do related to being... vibing, adding value, showing appreciation, OK with rejection, no agenda, not needy, not taking it seriously ... (this is to keep you having fun and motivated)... Complete all the things on your list and you have successfully accomplished your Crazy List! once you have completed all of this report back to this forum... share your success story in a brief Field Report Talk to you soon |
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