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| Author: | chrispb7 [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 9:12 pm ] |
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So how does one go about attracting these female players who lead tons of guys on, play very hard to get, and they are always running jealousy plotlines? only reason i ask is cuz i work with one, and no i dont like need to have her if thats what you think but itd be a cool experiment to figure out what works more on these types of girls. Maybe playing a bit more hard ball on them? but i'm not sure specifically... thoughts? |
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| Author: | Don Juan 89 [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 2:51 am ] |
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NOTHING can phase you whatsoever. It sucks because you have to be on guard a lot with them. They are generally playing games with a guy and can play even harder games if you aren't talking to them every day. If you talk to them every day any idea what happens? They stop talking to you because you seem like a loser. You just have to resist their "hard to get" attitude with your ghost style. They want you to talk to them so they will play hard to get even more, but you can't otherwise the outcome can be disastrous. |
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| Author: | Solteris [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 3:05 am ] |
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I would think that it comes down to reverse psychology in cases like this. Women like this are magnets to AFC that believe they have a chance and that just piles and piles onto their ego. Good game could help but unless your just that good, a more indirect approach would probably work best. Female players im sure have no problem initiating the conversations and game poor guys into believing what they want them too = gratification/approval. There all just grabbing every bit of attention that they can and once you take that away, the playing field is level. I think no matter how good "game" the woman has, the dominance rolls never change. That female player will eventually settle down with the one man that challenged her and broke her persona. The one that didnt give into her games and made his own. I guess the same thing goes for us. We can spend years learning PUA and get all kinds of women but the high value woman that we all really want is always the hardest target of them all. Anything else is for our own gratification and nothing more. As far as actual GAMING these women go, im still a youngin but ever since I've been learning PUA I've dealt more with the psychology of it all instead of techniques and im a big believer in inner game. If I had the choice of becoming a better man vs all the ass I could handle I'd for being a better me. Damn, I ramble on WAY too much. But yeah, I'd treat situations like this similar to a child crying for attention. The more you cave in and give into their demands the harder they will cry next time to feel that fulfillment, and when you dont show them attention they lose that power they thought they had over you. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 4:17 am ] |
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How ironic,speaking of female players. 2 months ago,I'd # close an HB 8.9 on facebook. We hit it off real well-super great vibes! I texted her a question one day,she never replied until 2 days after. I forgot the question I'd asked her. Becuse of that,she claimed that I was playing games. And to this day(over a month later),she never contacted me again until today(lol)!! Isnt that a cold witch!? She basically took the play book from me and frozed me out before I could do it to her[I'd planned to]. I think she did it because she had too many guys on her plate,and despite our gret vibes,it wasnt great enough to keep her. That's another trait of the female player. |
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