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| Author: | Tundra [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 8:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | "Calling" girls |
By "calling" I mean, "yo, I got that one". Whether its verbal or not, I've assumed that this is sort of normal for guys but I've had girls complain to me "you can't just "call" girls, they are not your property" etc.. When I'm talking about calling girls, I'm more in the range of "do NOT c-block me". The backstory is, my friend was on this one girl, I think she friend zoned him, and some other tool who thinks hes our friend goes out of his way to try and get on it (he also fails). Its not the first time he's tried to interfere with my bros, he makes it a habit, but my friends think hes a tool for doing it. Everytime he does it to me, its when I have a legit attraction and everytime I've # closed and f-closed, so I know he resents me a little but that's beside the point. Is he a tool or is he fair for that? I think its a special situation because my bros aren't that good with ladies, only one of them is alright, they usually get friend zoned, so I would say hes kinda fair for doing it but I don't think he has the social intelligence to know that they are getting friend zoned, he just does it to do it. What's your opinions on this cockfighting bullshit? I kinda brought this up with an ex and she's irritated by me talking about it, I brought it up because the other night this same guy c-blocked me after a #close which could have been a f-close but hes a douche... Its not even AMOGing, he just says something totally rude to upset the girl and she walks away... But I'll dive in it when she comes back to the area. So yeah. |
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| Author: | Don Juan 89 [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 8:31 pm ] |
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Tell him to stop and if he continues just cut him out of the group. You need wingmen, not leeches. I actually made a post similar to this and the consensus was that you always need to stand up and tell him the rules. |
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| Author: | Tundra [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 9:12 pm ] |
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The way I see it is, you can't control the girl obviously, if she's attracted to you, then its definitely fair play. That's what happens to me, I play the game good enough to get them onto me, unfortunately I do realize that I've attracted some of my friend's interests. I stay off of it out of respect, sort of like a grace period, but the fact is that they all got friend zoned and are slowly coming to terms with it, I just don't want to rub it in their face that I'm getting what they failed to get... Whereas, this guy will creep on everybody. I wouldn't say he's totally a leech, he throws parties here and there, both times I ended up hooking up with someone (one of them he was going for... my bad, psyche, she HATED him but showed up just because its a party). This guy will also do tool shit like sit in between a guy and a girl to break them up but act all casual like its normal. Shits so obvious. Like, I know this guy to be a tool, but I feel like I'm an inch away from being like him only because I don't fail when I run my game, I restrain myself, and its causing cognitive dissonance because my ex thinks that you can't "claim" girls, and I think she's right about that. I think SHE is actually more in tune with the mind of a PUA than my friends are. In a way, she is justifying this guy being a tool with other people's interests and I think he's in the right, I just don't think its friendly. Its more of like a priority thing, bros or hoes? You see what I'm saying? And honestly, this guy is a total tool, all of my friends know, all my girl friends know he's a tool, he fucks up all the time, gets caught in lie after lie, I think he resents me, but I still play it friendly and show up to his bullshit because I usually pick something up, that's the only reason. If anything, he probably thinks I'm leeching, but my game is not aggressive and I don't pull his bullshit moves so I'm not really THAT afraid of being like him, I just don't know how to feel about the "calling" thing. Do the feminazi's have a point? |
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| Author: | AFC Royal [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 10:21 pm ] |
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Yes, calling girls is legit. I don't think of it as "owning" them, considering that you only own the privilege to hit on them, which is different. Tell girls that it's the same as if they told their friends who they were going after, and they all agreed not to hit on eachothers' targets. Either that, or don't talk about it at all. |
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| Author: | Don Juan 89 [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 2:36 am ] |
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Exactly man. Calling is a sign of wingman respect. My friend I wing with isn't even a PUA however, he opened a set of some girls and out of respect I automatically helped him game the hotter girl. |
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| Author: | Tundra [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 6:47 pm ] |
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Yeah I'm not even talking about PUA really. If your real friend has interest in someone, even if that person doesn't have interest back (i.e. friend zoned), I've always thought it was respectful not to try and go for it, but apparently my ex thinks its a sign of ownership or something. The only exception to me, is telling your friend the situation and asking if they'll be ok with you going for it, otherwise, its just not the cool thing to do. |
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