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| Author: | Nice_AFC [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 4:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Got introduced on a night out, where to go from here? |
Right I've never really got into this PUA business, but using some of the stuff off here, I'm now much more confident & don't have any problems talking to strangers and just having fun, which has helped massively, now for a new problem. On Friday, after England's dreadful performance against Algeria, me and some friends went to town and we ended up meeting some friends of my mates, anyway there was a lass, a couple of years older than me, we got introduced, but to be honest, I was that far gone I'd just have made a tit of myself. On Saturday I messaged her on facebook, nothing important really, I said something along the lines of "as long as you didn't catch my dancing" which she replied to "next time I'm out she'll try and see my dancing lol" We haven't spoke since, but I did add her & she accepted, probably just being nice really and means nothing. Now this is where my problems begin, I want to get to know this lass, she's stunningly gorgeous, she may end up not being my type, but where do I go from here? I'd like to somehow try and start something off, but not looking creepy/desperate. Advice please. EDIT: Just to add, I'm going back out to town this Saturday, for a mates birthday, now I know from looking at her profile, she'll be out too, for someone's birthday. Could this be something to work from? I'd just need to stay soberish... |
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| Author: | Nice_AFC [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 7:06 pm ] |
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I'm totally useless at this, someone must be able to offer some advice. What should I do, message her & ask if she's out this Saturday (which I already know), ask if we could meet up so I could get to know her better? |
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| Author: | Solteris [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 3:35 am ] |
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I'll try and give you the best advice I can, but first of all make sure your keeping yourself in check when dealing with her (Dont keep checking her FB/Stalking) thats a good gateway to communicate with her but dont keep tabs because that kind of anxiety can build up and if something serious happens with you and this girl, you'd be on FB every second at this rate. Keep it casual my friend, strike up a conversation referring to the night you met and talk about the friends you have in common, anything to get the conversation going. I know you want to get with this girl but dont jump the gun and show too much interest right away by inviting her out right away or getting too personal. There's sites that are a great source of material to open conversations. Have a few fun little conversations with her and dont stress the whole thing. Im not gonna guarantee you it'll end in you two bumping uglies at her place but be the High value male you are and have a good time. Great personality goes a long way. |
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