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Author:  Buz [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 5:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Best way to say im not looking something serious?

Hi guys have a day 2 with a girl on tuesday, not really that into her, was wondering the best way to go about saying i'm not interested and i'm not looking for something serious.

thanks guys :)

Author:  Lucky D [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 5:58 pm ]
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Well, you don't talk about being serious. DOnt start talking about looking for love and marriage! You're just hanging out with a woman, so hang out with her and talk casually, just get her trust. Once the connection is good, you gradually get into talking about sex, you get her aroused.

Odds are she likes sex.

Presto!

Author:  Ezo [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 6:02 pm ]
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I guess this comes with experience. Normally you dont need to. Unless you start talking about feelings and a future together and shit like that. Thats just stupid if you are just looking for a ONS.

Just dont bring it up. Have fun with her and if she brings it up, you just tell her. How can you be completely into her? You just met her...

Author:  Chief [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 6:54 pm ]
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Saying "I'm not looking for anything serious" is a pretty good way to say "I'm not looking for anything serious."
Quote:
Odds are she likes sex.
+1

Author:  _Alias_ [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 8:04 pm ]
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I have to agree with whats been posted already. As long as you don't bring anything of that sort up you should be good. However don't be afraid to keep your date fun and flirty. Worse case is she brings up something about it. If this happens tell her your not sure what your looking for. That will keep it open ended.

Hope this helps.

Alias

Author:  Buz [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 11:25 pm ]
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Thanks guys, i only asked because she is a nice girl and i didn't want to hurt her, never had to say it before, i normally make my intentions pretty clear, but i was worried i was leading her on in this one.

advice worked a treat i called spoke for a few mins and said "There's something you should know, i'm not looking for anything serious right now, if you want to still meet tomorrow, thats cool"

she said: "that was a bit random, but you know what i'm glad you said it though, im not either, i'm on the same page hunny"

Me: "see you tomorrow at 1"

Thanks again guys :)

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