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Author:  breakology [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 7:07 am ]
Post subject:  HB9 playing hard to get. Need advice.
Okay, here's the deal. I'm new here, by the way, so hi.

So I met this girl (HB9) in my math class last year. She's the preppy, popular type. Attitude. Usually goes for jocks/assholes. One day she walks into class holding a red Gatorade and I notice a small red stain on her shirt. I started teasing her about it and that is when the attraction began.

Soon after, I met another girl and was off the market. HB9 and I still talked though, flirted a bit. But she knew I wasn't going to cheat on my girlfriend. Months went by. Eventually I broke up with my girlfriend. HB9 was happy. Then, before I could get anything planned with her, she decided to go out with some random douchebag. Their relationship didn't last long, and she called me the day after they broke up.

She tells me to come to this party. I arrive at the party, I see her, we hug, I take a seat next to her and we start drinking together. We start flirting a little bit, just getting comfortable. I was about to start some kino escalation when, suddenly, she had to go home. I should've walked her to her car and got a kiss goodbye. But no. Instead, I let her leave, drank myself retarded, and walked home.

So tonight she texted me. After a short light-hearted conversation over text, I tell her "I'm going to bed. Hit me up tomorrow night."

She responds, "Maybe :]"

I can tell she's playing hard to get. I need help taking this to the next level. My plan is to call her tomorrow and see if she wants to do something (perhaps come over to my house and go swimming?). Should I let her call me or should I call her? And what should we do if she is down to hang out? I like the swimming idea. How should I respond when she plays hard to get like she did tonight? And how should I break the tension and get a kiss?

Also, I'm going on vacation in 3 days so, I don't know, I could wait on it until I get back from that. I just need some advice. Any advice is appreciated.
Author:  El Hombre [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 8:09 am ]
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stop chasing! punish her, ignore her, don't call or text her for few days. sure she will be the one to make the first call or text (i'll bet my mother-in-law for this), then reverse the frame, play hard to get but not too much otherwise she might think you lost your interest to her. goodluck! i hope this works
Author:  El Hombre [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 8:23 am ]
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but wait! something pop-up on my mind and i saw that light bulb lit above my head. maybe you are wrong? as how i read your post, she's being playfull, she's on to you. it's up to you to escalate, flirt and tease her more. i dont think you'll be having a hard time to move to the next level. just do it!
Author:  AFC Royal [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 11:49 am ]
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El Hombre has it, but I personally don't like the idea of calling it "punishing" a girl. Why would you punish a girl? She plays hard to get, your natural reaction is to stop chasing, since you have tons of other beautiful women. She freaks out and chases you double-time. That's how it works.
Author:  breakology [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 8:22 pm ]
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I'm just not sure about that right now. I'll wait for her to call me today and give you guys an update.
Author:  travisgyg [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 8:27 pm ]
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I don't think "punishing" a girl is a good way to go. It's just not needed. You can not text her for a day, but that should be a natural response to other shit going on in your life.

Remember, first impressions are probably the most important thing in pickup. Just be fun, flirty and escalate things sexually as fast as you can through non-aggressive touching (slight hand touch on triceps is a good place to give a sexual vibe)

Good luck!
Author:  El Hombre [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 10:33 pm ]
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whenever i got hook up with hb10, usually a guy nearby ask what did you do? or what pick up line you use? and when i answer what the pick up line i use, he bust out 'wow! that's a killer!' fortunately the cops didn't catch the assassin. i saw this guy stalking a girl like a puppy and gave her bunch of flowers and some chocolates, i said stop doing that! that's deadly, he took back the flowers and chocolates and return it to the store where he bought it complaining: i will sue you!
Author:  breakology [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 6:03 am ]
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Still nothing. :(


EDIT:

I decided to text her. So far, this is the convo...

Me: B=D~~
Her: Hahahahahahah

I'm not even going to reply now.

Also, she texted back within like 20 seconds.
Author:  Little Panda [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 6:02 pm ]
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You attempted to reinitiate contact.... by sending her a penis?

Great work man
Author:  breakology [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 8:30 pm ]
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Is that sarcasm?

Uhh, listen, my relationship with this girl is very playful. And it just so happened to work out positively for me. I'm a fucking pioneer, doing things my own way. So maybe you should re-evaluate your own game.

In fact, I don't know why I'm even on this site. Most of you are straight up clueless. I'm getting advice from random kids with like 2 posts and no credibility.
Author:  Thisnamewontfi [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 8:41 pm ]
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Little Panda is right... I mean, by all means do things your own way. But don't you want to provoke some kind of response from here other than her reaction?

And also..

you sound a bit upset.

Just saying.
Author:  breakology [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 10:56 pm ]
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Little Panda is right... I mean, by all means do things your own way. But don't you want to provoke some kind of response from here other than her reaction?
Try to provoke a sexual response over text messaging, with a HB9 who is playing hard to get? Nah, I'd rather not take that gamble. I keep texting at a minimum.

I'm just playing around. I never said "GUYS, I MADE HER LAUGH. I'M TOTALLY IN!"

This is a difficult situation. If anything, I'm just trying to set myself apart from any other pathetic losers hitting her up all the time trying to get her to hang out.

Quote:
And also..

you sound a bit upset.

Just saying.
Brilliant observation, chief.
Author:  StanleyKowalski [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 4:15 am ]
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All these games are just a waste of time. Call her and TELL her to hang out. Make all the plans: "hey, come over at 3 so we can swim". Something like that. No matter whats he says and that's it. If she likes you she'll come.
Author:  breakology [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 5:07 am ]
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All these games are just a waste of time. Call her and TELL her to hang out. Make all the plans: "hey, come over at 3 so we can swim". Something like that. No matter whats he says and that's it. If she likes you she'll come.
You're probably right, and I appreciate the advice. I may just do that once I get back in town.

I had a terrible day today and I realized I need to stop being weak. My drivers license is suspended until August and I feel like half a man because of it.
Author:  Little Panda [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 10:27 am ]
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Is that sarcasm?

Uhh, listen, my relationship with this girl is very playful. And it just so happened to work out positively for me. I'm a fucking pioneer, doing things my own way. So maybe you should re-evaluate your own game.

In fact, I don't know why I'm even on this site. Most of you are straight up clueless. I'm getting advice from random kids with like 2 posts and no credibility.
Yeah it seems you did a great job this time.... lol.
Or is it maybe that you can't accept failure? In that case, it's your inner game issues that are the problem, and not me.

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The point is - you gotta be straight up with what your intentions are. Tell her what you wanna do (meet up, hang out etc). That's the smoothest and easiest way to find out where exactly you guys are at.

Hopefully this makes more sense now
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